So I was daiting this guy for 2months and I cheated on him 2days after he came over to my house. But u have no idea what he put me through. He made me feel ugly, dumb, unwanted, and used. Where the guy I cheated on him with is the total opposite. He made me feel pretty, sexy, loved, and smart. But after my ex dumped me my friend called him to find answers for me so I can get closure. And then my other friend called him to tell him off for this girl that he use to date. And then I told the girl he use to date to go back out with him so he will be happy again. But he found out and he calls that medling. And now he thinks I'm ruining his life b/c I told the girl he likes off b/c apparently she told him that I'm trying to ruin his life. So my question is how long would it take for u to forgive me? And he is really pissed off at me.
2006-11-12 14:46:41 · 6 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Life isn't a soap opera. He'll probably forgive you pretty soon. Your a teenager right? All seems pretty important to you right now doesn't it? Guess what? It's not. It's so unimportant it's laughable. You'll see what I mean in a few years. Peace.
2006-11-12 14:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by ZenTurkey 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, the reasons you gave for cheating on him are all selfish reasons. If he made you feel that way, then you should have broken up with him, taken a break, or talked to him about it. There is never an excuse to cheat, but it can be understandable why you did it. You are doing too much and being invasive so I would cut back on the direct interaction with him or anyone he knows and maybe leave it to emails or simply forgive-me cards. You trying to find out isn't going to help - you have to show him that you are sorry for him to even contemplate it. So that means however long it takes you to try to prove to him you won't ever cheat and that you want to be with him, that's how long its going to take. So yes, he's mad at you for cheating, and on top of that he's mad for you invading his space.
2006-11-12 22:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by WordToTheWise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like this was never a serious relationship, straight from the beginning
You cheated, he moved on..and he probably wants to be left alone, even though he did not treat you the way you wanted to be treated..
My question for you is why do you care if he is mad at you.
Move on, it will be best for all parties involved
2006-11-12 22:50:56 · answer #3 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
who cares?? Why would you want to be foregiven by a guy who used to make you feel miserable. Cut him loose and never look back.
2006-11-12 22:50:34 · answer #4 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd forgive you instantly, but I'd cheat on you.
2006-11-12 22:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by jazzmetalbassist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would probably have given you another chance by now...
2006-11-12 22:49:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋