If two persons really like each other but he will have to move to another country soon, will you try to work things out with him or will you try not to see him so you won't get hurt? What should i do?
2006-11-12 14:44:21 · 8 answers · asked by polinatora 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The worst thing in the world is to "try not to get hurt". I think you should go all out and make the best of the moment. You have no idea what the future will bring.
2006-11-12 14:47:38 · answer #1 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had something like this happen. I cut the relationship. I am happy now but do think of him often. I often think, "What if?", but things in life happen for a reason.
There are no guarantees and life is about risks. I personally wouldn't date someone moving to another country if I didn't have the means to maintain a realistic relationship with them. (calling, visiting, etc.) That is very expensive and you will always wonder what they are doing over where they are. And what of you? Will you get lonely and meet someone where you are? What if that new person is really great.
There are too many variables and I've already given my opinion.
I wish you the best.
2006-11-12 22:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Bad Kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what would you rather? to have the last few days, weeks, months, whatever...together spending it having fun and being together...or always having to wonder...what if? for all you know it may last. you both may fall in love and maybe one day move in together....or you could let that person that may be the one walk out of you life without ever being able to know for sure if it may have worked. Maybe they do move away and you guys loose touch(knock on wood) at least you had those last few moments together..not worrying, just having fun. Live your life one day at a time, dont worry about the past and dont base you life around future. Carpe Diem!!! (seize the day!!!)
2006-11-12 22:53:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know how many love stories are made up about this boy find girl ,falls for girl, lose girl and find her again.? this answer is divide into two section
if you are 20 or under then forget you will fall in love many times. yes go see him be with him until he leaves. Being hurt is apart of living. Get his address and write to him.
if you are over 20, follow him ,go with him marry him!
2006-11-12 22:51:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,it's better if you try to work things out...maybe it will gonna work between both of you. At least just try to always connect or contact with each other just to seen if there's any luck, maybe you are happen to be together! =)
2006-11-12 22:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by wanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like each other and he is moving away, i suggest that you stay in contact with each other and let time tell. time is the answers to all questions words can't. so keep in contact and let time tell you what to do from there.
2006-11-12 22:48:59 · answer #6 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you love him or not. True love can make it through anything. But if its just "like"..then move on. It will be easier that way.
2006-11-12 22:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never give up on true love, love will find a way.
2006-11-12 22:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋