Her dad completely hates me for some reason and says I'm not aloud to call her or ever see or date her again...and I know I can wait and she can wait but he wont change, and we both know that...and me and her don't want to have a secret relationship but we still love eachother more than anyone and she said she would date me in a heartbeat if she could...I cant do anything really nice cuz her dad is mean.. like I can't write him a letter cuz he will just throw it away, I don't know what to do? and I never did anything wrong, I just put my arm around her and he thought I was "all over her" and "going way to fast" that's why he made her break up with me....what should I do?
2006-11-12 14:30:28 · 7 answers · asked by Ben 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ben...take my advice on this....My husband went thru this same thing with my father when we were in highschool almost 15 years ago....my father found out we were fooling around and forbid us to see each other anymore...but we knew we were in love.
my now husband finally called and asked my father if he could sit down and talk to him...just the two of them. Hopefully if you do this, her father will respect you enough for making the call to meet with you and talk. My husband apologized to my father for "moving to fast' and for "disrepecting his daughter"...etc etc...and said he would be willing to follow any rules he had to, if we would be allowed to see each other....my father agreed. Once my guy showed my father respect...My daddy started to show him respect back. It took us a long time to earn his complete trusts...and of course we had to follow his rules...which sucked at times....but 15 years later....my daddy is proud to call my husband his "son".
call him. Show him respect. Swallow your pride even if you don't feel you've done anything wrong....follow his rules...she's worth it.
2006-11-12 14:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to her mom and explain that your not into this for sex or anything like that. Your intentions with their daughter are that of love. Maybe the dad is so psyco cause he dosnt want his little girl to grow up. Regardless of the circumstance, if you two love each other as much as you say, then nothing will get in the way of that.
2006-11-12 14:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Hal Jordan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 11:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i would say that if there is no other way than to just have a secret relationship with her until things change for the better. another way is to try and sit down with the dad and talk things out let him know what your intentions are with his daughter and also let him know the way you feel about her. almost every dad changes their mind after the guy sits down with him and they have a talk try it out see what happens.
2006-11-12 14:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there and now I am not even with him after two hard years of being together. So all I can tell you, if you two really do love each, this is one of the hardest test you two are going through. I wish you two the best of luck. Remember, this is his baby girl you fell in love with.
2006-11-12 14:41:10 · answer #5 · answered by fallenxangel2o9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as You Love her and she Loves You You 're both going to be alright and no one can stop you have patience and win her dad over he is just trying to protect her from anyone .
2006-11-12 14:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by Tellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haven't you ever read Romeo and Juliet just do that except for the losing her thing.
he sounds like he's over protective.
I think that if you two love each other enough then things will probably work out for you and her both.
I really hope it works out for you both.
2006-11-12 14:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by Pyro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋