He is very irrational/delusional and misconstrues everything I say. He is culturally different from the Figi any advise
2006-11-12 14:28:15 · 10 answers · asked by Hope K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I restraining order works rather well, and so does relocation. He may become dangerous and may try to hurt you. I would definitely seek the help of the authorities. Talk to a policeman and see what they can do or what you should do. Keep friends and family around whenever possible. Do not go anywhere by yourself.
2006-11-12 14:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, make a police report and try to get a restraining order.
Really. Do this as soon as possible. Your local law enforcement will be able to help you handle the guy, tell you how to act in order to protect yourself, how to flag phone calls if he harrasses you that way, etc.
Second, you may want to consider a really big dog, or one of those recordings of a really big dog.
2006-11-12 14:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Hurricane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Immediately start building a case for getting a restraining order, this guy is dangerous! He will physically abuse you eventually. He is the one cheating, and he still wants you to be loyal to him. He is not work the time you have spent on him. Get witnesses to his strange behaviour, keep a journal of what he says and does and take it to the Justice of the Peace to have a solid reason to keep him away from you. Do not initiate any contact with him!
2006-11-12 14:33:11 · answer #3 · answered by yogarani108 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you I was once one of those guys. (that type)
I really dont know how it would have ended (Im not the violent type) But I wrecked a motorcycle and got layed up in the hospital for a very very long time. She had moved away by the time I was up and moving around on my own.
And by then I knew she never wanted to see me again.
What I would say to you is move away. And tell everyone one who cares about you to not tell him where you are.
In my case it happened I found someone just as needy and insecure as I was and we blended very well. Im now married almost 20 years.
2006-11-12 14:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by apup76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order, that is against the law to stalk you. Make sure you have a weapon in your home also, depend on YOURSELF for your safety THEN the law.......
2006-11-12 14:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating on you and he's an idiot. Get a restraining order on the moron - and get him out of your life.... Any guy who accused me of cheating was already cheating on me.
2006-11-12 14:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well there are a lot of ways to dump him. and hopefully you did it already. but if he is stalking you and harrassing you then maybe it's time to go to the police.
2006-11-12 14:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and get a restraining order.
2006-11-12 14:31:13 · answer #8 · answered by Shane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try calling domestic violence in your area they will lead you in the right direction i'm speaking from experience and culture is not an exuse for abuse
2006-11-12 14:42:30 · answer #9 · answered by francelina w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to get lost because he will only get worse and you deserve better
2006-11-12 14:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by BubbleyChick 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋