Everytime i ask him if he talks to other girls or if i mention anything about him and sum girl he freaks out and starts yelling at me. I dont understand....because if it wasn't true then why in the hell does he have to freak out...he said he gets fustrated and thats why he hangs up on me or call me a dumb *****!!!! If he is not doing anything with another girl then why does he have to freak out so much? Does that mean that he is actually with some other girl or he reacts like that becasue he's fustrated with me always telling him that he wants to be with sum other girl or that he likes one????
2006-11-12 14:19:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Could be either one. Only you know how often you ask him questions like that and if they are warranted. If your just a jealous girlfriend and a little insecure you have to admit this to yourself and come to grips that it will be frustrating on his part to deal with that type of behavior. However, if he is short tempered and you have real proof of what you believe may be him cheating or talking to other girls then he might get upset because he knows it's the truth. He may have a guilty conscience and is just taking it out no you. You have to do one or two things. Either gather enough evidence that it's really going on combined with your suspicions and move on or stop doubting him as much as you want to believe hes lying and know that hes innocent until proven guilty. Until then don't go looking for something that's not there, because eventually in your head your going to see things that may not even be there. Trust is everything in a relationship and just because you suspect something doesn't mean its true or right, it's just your opinion and how you see it. So you have to be open minded and give him the benefit of the doubt and concentrate more on reasons why he don't have to cheat so if he is cheating at least you won't have to ask yourself what you did wrong or what you could've did differently.
2006-11-12 14:33:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't know how old either of you are, but you are threatening his privacy and his ego. He feels you are probably spying on him and does not like that. He may be guilty and he may not be guilty, but you would probably not like him asking YOU all the time either, as this is a lack of trust.
When he curses you out and starts yelling at you, this is something that you should not put up with, but DO EXPECT him to do so, as you are making him be defensive all the time. If you are that unsure of his infidelity, then it would be best for you to just let him go.
2006-11-12 14:25:02 · answer #2 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be a little of both. Now if your constantly asking him if he's been with some other girl that would be very annoying but if he's giving you signs that he's cheating then he probably is. Usually your gut feelings are right on the money.
2006-11-12 14:22:41 · answer #3 · answered by flutterby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Why are you with a boyfriend who you feel the need to question about fidelity that often?
2. Why be with a guy who hangs up on you and calls you names like that?
There are bigger issues here than whether he's cheating. Go find a guy who is kind to you and helps you feel secure.
2006-11-12 14:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Shane 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if hasn't done anything I'm sure you are going to drive him to it with all the nagging. I know b/c I did it. And most of the time if you think he's cheating he is. So stop asking and start snooping!!
2006-11-12 14:30:04 · answer #5 · answered by ztns9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me either he is cheating or he is just frustrated about being asked the same question over and over again. Give him space and observe from afar to see if you can pick up on anything.
2006-11-12 14:38:40 · answer #6 · answered by ne_patriots2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably asking him to much. I he is cheating on you dump him because you deserve better. Just don't freak about it for now.
2006-11-12 14:24:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he should me calling you names you are just scared but maybe he is just tiered of you telling him he is with another girl give him some space, dont acuse him just calmly talk to him not yelling and telling him that he is just tell him how it makes you feel and try not to acuse him so much cuz you might drive him away...
2006-11-12 14:30:49 · answer #8 · answered by sofitaps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably just frustrated that you keep asking him that. keep it up and he might just make it true. you have to trust him and if you can't then you don't need to be in a relationship w him. don't approach him w you insecurities until you have solid proof.
2006-11-12 14:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be both, and well u already know the answer
2006-11-12 14:25:58 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Mai Tai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋