Every guy i know goes for girls who are smaller and pretty. Why do they do that? Looks aren't anything important..are they?
2006-11-12 14:12:01 · 34 answers · asked by megan h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's true that men are obsessed with looks. but it's only an obsession. a good man knows that looks aren't everything...it's just hard not to notice it! especially bodies. i'm just being honest.
i can be in the best relationship, with an absolutely gorgeous woman (as i am) and i'll still catch myself checking out a good looker on the sidewalk and have to just shake my head and get on with life.
life's just not fair. and anyway, the best looking girls knows it all too well and are way too obsessed with looks themselves whether it be them or the men.
2006-11-12 14:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The smaller girls are asked out because men are genetically predisposed to like shorter women. A talller woman is either percieved as not feminine or is intimidating. Taller women like taller guys anyway, so shorter guys tend not to ask them out, they usually get rejected.
As for looks, unless you are really just the elephant girl, it may have to do with other factors. Do you look guys directly in the eye and smile? Do you wave and say hello? If you aren't approachable, guys won't approach you.
And unfair asit might be, prettier people are percieved as more approachable (up to a point, too pretty and it is intimadatind as well.)
2006-11-12 14:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Chance20_m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the way I see it, is that guys would like a girl that is easiest to mate with. Usually meaning they are good at having sex. Not only that, but they could also make their guy friends jealous, like someone else said.
People are all different though, not EVERY guy wants a small skinny hot girl, but majority do. Image is definitely a big element of attraction.
Hell, I know myself personally, even if a girl is a little bit bigger, if she looks good, then I will find her attractive.
Confidence plays a BIG role too. You could have a really hot girl with no confidence, and I wouldn't find her attractive.
2006-11-12 14:20:05 · answer #3 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are visual...the first thing they notice is what they SEE...you can still get a guy even if you arent small or pretty, but there is a certain way to go about it. You cant just let urself go and get sloppy and dont TRY to look good. Even an unatractive girl can get a guys attention if she grooms herself well. Then after he has noticed her she can start to show him what an awesome personality she has and he;s more likely to stick with the girl that has a good personality and a neat apearance.
just take time to look at your har n makeup, brush your teeth, accessorize a ittle, clean nails, lip gloss, maybe a new outfit and BAM!
2006-11-12 14:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by chicwitpurpose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are like a computer and its method of booting up. You turn on the computer, it runs through BIOS, diagnostics, and then loads up Windows. Well correlate this to the way a man's brain works. A man sees a woman, he determines whether she's beautiful or not, he hears her speak based upon that decides whether to talk to her, and he talks to her and determines what kind of personality she has. However, unlike a computer which boots to Windows every time, a man may not reach the final level until he matures. Some men sees a woman, determines whether she's beautiful or not, but they fail to progress any further than that. Just pass these guys up, they're not "booting up" all the way yet.
2006-11-12 14:22:37 · answer #5 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are visually stimulated...personality is SOOO important...but looks are too. Could you spend the rest of your life with someone that YOU didn't find attractive? I couldn't! But it shouldn't be about what society finds attractive...it should be about what is attractive to YOU.
you're just hanging around guys who happen to like girls who are smaller than you, and that YOU think are prettier than you.
You may not have met them yet...but there are plenty of guys around who will /do look at you and think YOU'RE prettier than those other girls.
PEOPLE are obsessed with looks and not personality...Not just MEN...but there are many many of us that realize there is so much more to life and love.
2006-11-12 14:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they are not the most important thing. From my point of view (I'd been in high school few years ago), guys of that age are not mature yet for stable relationships.
Plus, all those Hollywood portraits corrupt our perception of beauty. The internal beauty should be considered as the most important factor in a long-term relationship.
2006-11-12 14:17:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That certainly explains why no one wants to take me in as a girlfriend. I'm 175 cm tall and not that pretty. It seems that guys are more interested in my sister who is petite in size.
Looks are important for immature guys and as everyone knows, physical attraction wouldn't last that long. Probably good for ONS and lusting material. It's that emotional attraction that would help retain a long lasting relationship.
2006-11-12 14:19:02 · answer #8 · answered by MissIndependanceday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because as humans we have a fascination with beauty. we enjoy beautiful things of all kinds and want to be surrounded by it. it makes us feel good and makes us happy. think about how you feel when a guy you think is absolutely gorgeous talks to you. you feel all warm inside. well, guys feel the same way when a girl they think is pretty comes around. its not that they are obsessed with looks, its that they can't help it. unlike women, men can't hide what they think and their actions make women think that they are obsessed with looks but in reality they are not. they really want a girl with personality because in the long run, that is what matters. but beauty is only skin deep and true beauty comes from within. every girl is a beautiful and pretty as she feels.
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