Well my boyfriend is changeing alot when im with him he became a jerk and everyone hates him , everyone wants me to dump him and we haven't been together for long time and I don't know how i feel right now. should i dump him or not and I am his first girlfriend too. what do I do ??
2006-11-12 14:08:32 · 10 answers · asked by sweet*thang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. He is a jerk when I am with him.
2. Everyone wants me to dump him.
3. Everyone hates him.
4. I am his first girlfriend.
5. I don't know how I feel right now.
Ask your self this to the above:
1. Do you think he is going to change?
2. Do your friends see that he a bad choice for you?
3. Why do your friends hate him? Did he do something to them, or are they looking out for your best interests?
4. Do you think his behavior would be different if you were his 5th girlfriend?
5. Read number 1-3 above and pretend I am telling you about MY boyfriend- what would you tell ME?
2006-11-12 14:16:43 · answer #1 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dump or not dump is your decision...if you aren't happy in the relationship, then break up with him...if you are, then stay. Don't waste his time or yours if you really don't want to be there, or if he's not someone you want to be with...there are too many other options to spend time with someone who is not a good match.
Decide what you want to do (based on your feelings, not those of other people) and then follow through...
2006-11-12 22:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. You're too young to start hanging on to jerks that everyone hates.
2006-11-12 22:10:48 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well first off forget what everyone else thinks. The reason why you are taking the opinions of others seriously is most likely because you feel the same way. You have to figure out how you feel...don't stay with him just to rebell aginst everyone else and don't leave him because everyone else "hates him"
2006-11-12 22:13:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is going through something, mabe you need to have a chat with him. Remind him of things that were enjoyed and asked him why things are changing. Point out what is happening mabe he does not relize what is going on. See and ensure that the changes are going in the direction you want to go. Mabe he is maturing and looking to create a future for you two. Tell him where and how you want it to go. See that your goals are going in the same direction. he may be changing for you at least what he thinks you want. If he is not going the direction you want to be going then you will have to figure out what to do.
2006-11-12 22:19:09 · answer #5 · answered by Blaze 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him tell him what he's doing wrong see how he responds to that if he's still a jerk dump him
2006-11-12 22:13:01 · answer #6 · answered by Craft 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him,jerks and assholes never change it will just get worse dont find out later
2006-11-12 22:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by lyle2727 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After every1 told you, you still need every1 else to still be telling you???? Ok...let me tell you.... YOU SHOULD WAIT TILL HE DUMPS YOU THEN. End of story.
2006-11-12 22:12:48 · answer #8 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about him, worry about you. Spend some time away from him, and all your "advisors". Do something else for a while. You will know what to do.
2006-11-12 22:12:59 · answer #9 · answered by gobbolino_the_witches_cat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who treats you right.
2006-11-12 22:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋