I called my ex she didnt pick up her phone right away but shortly after she called me back. We talked for a while she told me she going with a new phone carrier and changing her phone number . Towards the end of the conversation she told me she still thinks of me but not to get back with me. If she has a new guy why is she still thinking of me? I sent her a text telling her I feel and I want her back. She called back saying I'm making her feel bad I can tell she was about to cry so she said she had to go. No matter what girl I talk to I wish my ex was on the other end I need help. I'm still in love with her even though we been broken up for five months.
2006-11-12 14:07:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe she does still have feelings for you or that she cares about you as a friend.. if she does not want to be up front about her feelings lets say then move on and find someone who will be there for you..
2006-11-12 14:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by gacountrygirly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be hard to let someone that we love go their own way. But it sounds like she really doesn't want to get back together. Maybe you should try to think of the things that you liked about her, and try to find some of the same things in a new girlfriend. If its been five months, and she is changing her number, I think it would be time for you to move on. Try to meet new people, and eventually, it will pass. Good luck, you sound like a great guy, I'm sure that you will find someone!
2006-11-12 22:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by Amy S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you had to go through that, but all you can do is take each day slowly and take that risk at opening yourself up again and let the past stay in the past. It took me a year or so to get over my first love. I did date other men during those time when I tried to get over him, but he was always in the back of my mind. So it just takes time. It will suck at times, but this experience will make you become stronger.
2006-11-12 22:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by fallenxangel2o9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did she say she had a new guy? maybe she is thinking about you because she misses you or not you but just miss having a boyfriend. from what you have said, it is obvious to me that she doesn't feel the same way about you that you feel for her. that is why when you texted her saying how you felt, she said you are making her feel bad. my suggestion is this: move on. there is another girl out there that is worth your time. you can still have feelings for your ex, but know that it is time to move on.
2006-11-12 22:13:17 · answer #4 · answered by Kokoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me tell you this i was in a long realashionship and i broke up i sat down like an idiot and was sad tripping all the tim for over a year but now i look back at it and i look at how much time i waisted for myself .. soo move on and be happy and try to enjoy your life i mean if she don't want you then she doesn't you can't really do anything about it
good luck!
2006-11-12 22:15:26 · answer #5 · answered by simplexdisaztr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dis is just what i think.....but to me it sounds like yo gurl aint bein completely honest wit you.....now i dont know how or why yal broke up or nutin but i think you should try talkin to her to her face so you can look into her eyes ya know.....but i think dat she still does have feelings for you and wants ta get back wit but for some reason she could be afraid to or whateva you know.....so you need to find out wats goin on fosho.....and i aint no expert of course but dat could be wrong and if so i still think you should at least try talkin to her to her face ya know....and TRY and at least be friends cuz if you really love her it will be hard but if i were you id rather be a friend than nutin at all ya feel me so ya i hope er- thang works out good lol....:)
2006-11-12 22:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by lilnaychulita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED TO MOVE ON!!! She is doing fine, why can't you do the same?? When you find the right girl, you will forget all about your ex.
2006-11-12 22:09:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to let it go... if she says she doesn't want to get back with you then let her go. Stop calling/texting to give her some time. If it's meant to be, she'll realize her mistake & call you.
2006-11-12 22:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by jae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course she thinks of you and all the experiences you shared, but she's made it very clear that it's over. Let her go.......
2006-11-12 22:13:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.It takes time but at this point you need to concentrate on your goals.
2006-11-12 22:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋