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It would be primarily just a friend with benifits thing nothing serious. but i'm not sure if it's appropriate . help anyone

2006-11-12 14:04:28 · 32 answers · asked by Chicka269 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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First of all, sex is a very big deal, especially for us girls. Personally, I can't have sex with anyone I don't love. If you feel like you can handle that, then it might work out for you. I know I could never just be a friend with benefits...I would always find myself wanting more. Women tend to be more emotionally needy than men. Do you really think you could handle sex without being in a relationship?

2006-11-12 14:07:11 · answer #1 · answered by skichamonix515 3 · 3 2

I don't think it is a great idea. I have been there. Friends with benefits sounds like a good idea but once it is done there is no going back. Weird feelings may arise and it may be ackward the morning after. It just depends on how good a friend this is. If it is a very good friend i would not recommend it because you may end up losing the friendship portion. If it someone that you do not see in your future as a friend or anything else then i say go for it! Be safe!!!

2006-11-12 14:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by alavast 1 · 0 1

If you are asking if this is appropriate or not then you probably shouldnt. I have tried the friends with benefits thing and usually when I have sex with someone I can only do the I dont have any feelings for you thing for so long. I end up liking the person more and then it becomes one big mess. So save your time for someone you care about and they care for you to if feels sooooo much better in the end.

2006-11-12 14:08:09 · answer #3 · answered by b 4 · 3 0

Firstly are you a virgin?
because if this is the case no!
You want to have sex with someone romantically don't you?
For woman emotions are all caught up in the act, thus if you love the person it will be better and mean so much more to you.
I really don't think its a good idea,
if your more experianced then maybe but you should be careful, this could damage the relationship you have with the person drastically, and are you sure they are looking out for you, and not just themselves.
Overall the situation sounds unlikely to work, good luck

2006-11-12 14:11:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Think about it, your body belongs to you and only you. Choose wisely before you decide to share the most important and intimate thing you possess. Sex with someone is the the most intimate physical act one can do. You're sharing closeness, and all your bodily fluids with the other person. Don't put limits on yourself when deciding if it is the right time. But just keep in mind what it is you're doing, what you're sharing and how rare having YOU really is.

2006-11-12 14:13:07 · answer #5 · answered by Logicnreason 2 · 0 1

Don't do it if you're just "thinking about having sex." Do it when you know it's 100% right, you don't have any doubts, or fears, you just know it's right and appropriate. I also wouldn't do it unless you've discussed birth control options with your partner and what you would do in the event of a pregnancy. Also...is your partner clean? Has he been tested? This is really important stuff to consider beforehand.

2006-11-12 14:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 1 1

Your body is precious and beautiful as the woman you are. Don't give it away to someone who hasn't worked hard and loved and cherished you to get it. Sex will be a part of your life forever. Why rush?

As a woman, you have GOLD between your legs. Use that gold to your advantage. Control the situation. Don't let the situation control you when YOU own the gold. Think about it.

2006-11-12 14:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by mrsleslie_lady 3 · 1 1

well if your hoping for a relationship,you won't get one out of this situation. Friends with benefits,is like a way of saying,we can have sex with each other and other people to. are you willing to take the risk of catching an std? think of the consequences more then the momentary enjoyment.

2006-11-12 14:08:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ellie 4 · 2 0

put off doing anything until after you have the "real" ring on your finger. If you go against this advice, you'll might get pregnant and have kids too soon leaving a possibility of dealing with child support and other lond-term consequences out there.

2006-11-12 14:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by hotjunior222002 2 · 0 0

Trust me, WAIT, til its with somebody special. I made a huge mistake on my first because I thort I didn't care, and ended up going into depresstion for a year, and then wen I did find the right guy. It was already gorn, but none the less I got over it but I do wish that I had waited

2006-11-12 14:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

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