This girl is wierd...?

Question

There is this girl, each time she sees me, she waves and smiles, and she looks so darn adorable when she does that. We've been good friends for about 2 months, suddenly she ignored me, whenever i talk to her, she seems like she lost interest, she doesn't even say hi to me, when i talk to her, she said " o really? " or repeating what i just said with a question mark after that, then she stopped talking after that...... -_- , i can hardly talk to her now.... , I don't know what to do, because i like her too........

I started to think that she found out something freaky about me and doesn't want to be at least my friend.....

Answer 1

maybe she just gave up on you cuz you wouldn't ask her out...i'd for sure talk to her about it, easy way is to just send her an im :)

Answer 2

You're probably right. Here's what you can do.

Walk up behind her quietly when she's not w/ a lot of people and cover her eyes. She'll play the guessing game. And when curiosity is killed over, uncover her eyes so she can see you holding a rose for her.

Tell her a geniune compliment like "You look nice in that hairstyle. It really brings out your pretty eyes". Then go into how good people are hard to find and how rumors can get started and how good honest people should find the truth for themselves. Follow it up with another compliment if it fits. Tell her you got the rose because you think she's a very sincere person that can see the good qualities of a person. If it flows, ask her what's up with the "negative energy", and you want to know because you want to get to know her (if need to be add the "just as a friend" speech". This might put her on the spot. Then put your thumb in your mouth like it was bleeding before and say you got stuck by the thorns you picked off the rose (she'll see you're vulnerable too)

If no answer do casual talk and before the departure bring up the negative energy issue again. It's 85% likely you will get an answer. If not, then comically tell her you have to get some more band-aids for your fingers because you're going to keep plucking difficult roses for her. She'll see the metaphor and the effort to become friends again.

Answer 3

It most likely has nothing to do with you. She's probably just lost interest and is trying to kindly brush you off.
OR - is there a chance that you've maybe done something that made her feel like YOU weren't interested?

Answer 4

I'm thinking that she was interested in you too and she is upset with you because you never asked her out. The best way to find out is to come right out and ask her what is bothering her.

Answer 5

when u are talking to her, are you staring at her boobs? Or maybe on a serious note she doesnt think your interested in her, so she said forget or maybe she is playing hard to get....you know that silly game girls play so we look like more of a challenge....ahhh yes gotta love the dating life.

Answer 6

Is there something "freaky" about you?? Just try talking to her. Ask her what her deal is. She is wierd. Good luck.

Answer 7

what freaky things could she have found out???

just go and ask her why she doesn't want to talk to you anymore, tell her you noticed it.
or just move on, not everyone is friend material.

Answer 8

Maybe she did find out something?
I had a friend once do this to me?....some people are out there!
Like unable to say what has made them...upset.
It is totally weird....and I myself, run when it happens...Like I just don't want to be caught up..in their weirdness.

Answer 9

Aww she likes you...either that or some gossip is going around and she thinks you said something bad about her...probably not though.

Answer 10

Maybe she thought you didn't like her and her like was only a small amount and she lost interest.