my parents have told me not to get seriously involved with a girl until after my mission(for the LDS church). I wills serve my mission, but she is going to wait for me. I know I am not supposed to get this involved, but i know that am with the one I am supposed to be with forever, i know that we promised to find each other in this life. but, my parents would flip out if they knew i felt this way, how do i break it to them?
2006-11-12 13:42:42 · 5 answers · asked by Daniel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is a difficult situation you are in. I don't know that you have to tell your parents truthfully. They don't necessarily need to know the depths of your feelings. However what you really need to do is pray about this situation and see where God leads you on this.
It might be that God wants you to talk to your parents about this and if so then I think having her with you is a good thing.
Your parents can't stop you from feeling what you feel and likely they were just giving advice anyway.
Good luck and I will pray for you.
2006-11-12 13:49:43 · answer #1 · answered by The OTHER Boelyn Chic 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly where you are in this.
my advice is to tell your parents that you really care about and have feelings for this girl, and you are planning on pursuing something when you come back. i assure you they will try to talk you out of it, but tell them that if they want, you will encourage your girl to continue dating while you are serving. besides, if you two really care about, and even love each other, there can be no harm. set perameters between the two of you, and discuss them with your folks afterwards.
good luck, and good for you on deciding to go on a mission.
2006-11-12 13:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by Syd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya umm im in the lds church out in cape cod the cape cod branch i am not the most reliable or one who would abide by the word of wisdom but it all depends on ur age also if she is lds also go on ur mission she will thtink its great but get a good enough relationship so she doesent leave you and then with the age i would email me because if u gave me like age and stuff i coud give you just the way to break it to them rsimcahyadda@yahoo.com
2006-11-12 13:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by 007 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've know many young men who go on their missions and come back and get married. I don't see why it would be a problem.
2006-11-12 14:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by Shadow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them with her holding your hand beside you.
just let them know how happy you are.
good luck<3
2006-11-12 13:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by misty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋