I am a junior in highschool, and there is this girl that is really cute that I want to get to know better. I sdon't have her in any classes so I don't really have an excuse to say hello or introduce myself. We don't share any common friends, we just walk past eachother during passing period. What advice do you have for getting to know her better, and what should I do to introduce myself.
2006-11-12 13:42:24 · 7 answers · asked by savage 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off... get some confidence. walk up to her.. introduce yourself and tell her you would like to get to know her better.
or....
you can be slick about it... and ask around about her.... find something interesting... and spark a conversation with her... and remember.... CONFIDENCE!
2006-11-12 13:48:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Write her a note, "Hi, I'm____, and I'd like to apologize bc I think I've been staring at you and I know that makes a person come off as a stalker. But I think you're cool and I've always wanted to introduce myself, but I couldn't get up the guts." If she responds to the note in a polite or encouraging way, you are prepared for part 2 of the operation. You can skip to this part right away next time, with another girl that you haven't already screwed up with. Do it 3 days ahead and in person, or with a note so you don't catch her on the spot and she says no just bc of fear. Texting is tacky in this situation. Step one- confidence. If you don't have it, fake it. Step two- talk to her. Smile confidently -don't ever dog yourself. Don't complain. Some high school boys come off as kicked dogs who are unloved by the world and they hate it back. Avoid this. -integrity, intelligence, and respect are key in the long run. Most importantly, after you have established contact in this way, FLIPPIN GO FOR IT. You would be surprised how many gorgeous girls are lonely and often single just because there are no guys who will actually risk rejection. These girls often wonder what is wrong with them. I promise, if you ask out ten girls, at least half will say yes, unless you weigh 600 pounds or have three heads or if you are creepy. DON'T be creepy. Ever. Just ask her if she's seen any good movies lately and mention one that you want to see. She'll probably mention one she wants to see to, then ask her if you can take her/meet her there. I love a guy who is humble enough to get over themselves and risk a blow to the ego and go for what they want. If she says no, say, "Worth a shot" and smile (with no teeth). Stay away from her for about two-three weeks. If she talks to you, talk back, don't look sad. When you see her, smile at her. Give her space to miss you. Then try again. If you are rejected a second time, once she has had time to think about it, you are SOL man. Find another girl. If you are accepted on the date either on the first or second time you ask, congratulations. The first date is the time to show the side of you that is interested in her. Ask her questions, prompt her to yak about herself, listen. Don't try for anything physical on the first date. Let her know you had a great time. Call her within the next two days.
2016-03-19 07:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk straight up to her look her right in the eye and even if you already know it just ask her what her name is and then introduce yourself. If conservation flows go with it, if you start to dive stay confident and just tell her you keep noticing her around and just wanted to introduce yourself (everyone likes to be noticed she will love the attention.) Tell her you gotta go and you'll see her around, then just make eye contact and say hi you'll know soon enough what she thinks, and don't worry if it doesn't work out you'll be better prepared for the next girl that catches your eye GOOD LUCK mate!
2006-11-12 13:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by bentomsun 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the next time you walk by her say: "hi" or "hows it going" or "whats up?" That's to start you off. And then sooner or later you can move on to actually having a conversation.
Don't act nervous or weird. Just be cool calm and most importantly be yourself. Girls like honesty.
Good luck!
2006-11-12 13:47:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't use a cheesy pick up line, try just complementing her and walking away so she doesn't think your hitting on her. if she makes and effort to talk to you then yay! but if she doesn't just be like "hey, i'm *your name*, you're not in any of my classes but i wanted to get to know you." just be honest with her.
2006-11-12 13:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by love*pink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi my name is..............I have seen you around and thought you were someone worth meeting, what's your name
2006-11-12 13:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Say Hi to her when you pass her...see what happens.
2006-11-12 13:50:09 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look at her..keep looking until your eyes meet for three seconds..smile...say hey...continue walking
2006-11-12 13:45:44 · answer #8 · answered by secret s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋