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im a high school senior. and about 5 or 6 weeks ago i approached this girl who i had this huge crush on. she was in one of my classes last year and one of my friends being stupid told her that i liked her. after being told this i was to nervous to talk to her. she flirted with me though. so anyway a coulpe of weeks ago i approached her and started to talk to her. i finall asked her for her number, she lied and told me she had a bf. i then asked if she wanted to at least hang out, she said ill give you my number later. i said "when's later?", she said "like monday". keep in mind it was friday after school. she avoided me the following week. now, whenever we rarely see eachother, wo both look at eachother with nothing said or implied with any facial gesture, unless when shes with her friends in which case she smiles and locks her eyes on me. what do yall think i should do? but most importantly what do u think she feels or thinks about the situation ,probably?

2006-11-12 13:25:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

Sorry to tell you, but she's just not that into you.

Here are a few reasons why:
-- someone already told her that you liked her, but she did nothing
-- she flirted with you but nothing happened
-- you asked for her number and she lied (big red flag)
-- she said she had a boyfriend (maybe a lie but definitely a way of deflecting your interest)
-- she said she'd give you her phone number Monday and she avoided you
-- when she look at you, she doesn't smile or light up
-- she only smiles at you when she's around her friends (so she doesn't have to talk to you; her friends protect her like a pack)

I think you should give up on her being anything more than just a girl you know around school, or a casual acquaintance. You can't make someone like you, and you can't make someone feel something they just don't. I think she may be flattered that you like her, but she's just not interested. If she had been interested, she would have talked to you a long time ago; she'd have given you her real phone number, and you'd have spent time together.

Sorry. Unrequited affection is a bummer. Good luck. You deserve a girl who smiles and lights up when she sees you, is happy to give you her phone number, and would be happy to go out and spend time with you.

Hope this helps. Cheers, K

2006-11-12 13:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kate 4 · 0 1

You should definitely move on.

She may have just been trying to flirt, but wanted nothing more. It also sounds like she's trying to impress her friends or keep up some kind of image. There is a possibility that if you don't pay her any attention, she will pursue you. But even if she doesn't, it doesn't sound like she's worth your time. You might really like her, but I can almost guarantee that there's some girl at school that you haven't even noticed that secretly has a crush on you.

2006-11-12 21:31:16 · answer #2 · answered by jae 2 · 0 1

Sounds like she isnt all that interested and she is enjoying messing with you because she knows that you like her. If you want her try ignoring her but every once in a while smile and that will drive her crazy more then likely until she comes up to you and gives you her number. If nothing else just move on.

2006-11-12 21:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by winkk911 1 · 0 1

nobody can speak for this girl, but she may actually have boyfriend, maybe he doesn't go to your school. Maybe she is playing games. Usually girls will give you their number if they are interested. The whole "later" thing sounds kinda flakey. Reminds me of me, when I think I like someone but I don't know for sure. Give her some space, move on and if she is interested then she will come looking for you.

2006-11-12 21:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by jjewel 3 · 0 1

It dosen't sound very good sorry, she seems immature, for pretending to have a boyfriend and can't just say she doesn't want to give you her phone number. You know you deserve someone who will like you honestly, and not play games

There a whole lot better out there I promise

2006-11-12 21:32:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

She is a tease, playing hard to get. Go ask her for her number again, if she refuses this time, move on.. Tell he there are better fish in the seas.

2006-11-12 21:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0 1

Wow thats really wierd that she would do that. She might be playing hard to get. Maybe shes not aloud to have guys call her yet?

2006-11-12 21:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by alkdjf 3 · 0 0

Sounds like you waited to long, and when you got the courage, you pushed too hard.
Sorry partner, but it doesn't look like she's all that interested.
I'd look elsewhere.

2006-11-12 21:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

She's playing you. Forget about her and focus on someone who actually likes you.

2006-11-12 21:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by SlapHappy 4 · 0 1

Move on Young Man, She is NOT worth your "what if's"

2006-11-12 21:31:37 · answer #10 · answered by e_guanajuato 3 · 0 1

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