Do i need to let her know that i'm divorced with custody of 2 son?
OR Just said i'm single? (wait: in serious relationship then explain?)
Please give advise..... i need some!!!
What the effect if a girl knows i'm divorced with 2 kids? Will scare her away??
2006-11-12 13:23:06 · 6 answers · asked by peter71 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't need to come right out and say that on a first date, but if you want to get serious, then it's important to mention it sooner rather than later. The girl may not be affected by it at all. I'm 24 and my fiance is 37, divorced w/2 kids and a pyschotic ex-wife. But I love him to death because the divorce doesn't shape him as a person.
2006-11-12 13:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sonia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if it's someone you're interested in, she might want to know about the divorce and the kids. I wouldn't suggest just telling her within 5 minutes of meeting her, but if you're really interested in her, then this is important info. She will likely ask this info on her own. If she asks if you're single, let her know you're not dating anyone right now, or you date from time to time. It's still an honest answer without spilling all your info up front.
If the divorce & kids scare her away, she's not the one for you anyway!
2006-11-12 21:27:13 · answer #2 · answered by jae 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell the truth, but ease her into it just don't blurt it out. And if she really cares and wants to give the relationship thing a shot then it wont matter if your divorced with two kids.
2006-11-12 21:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by hippie_at_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on y'alls ages. If she really cares for you she might do ok with the news about your family. Then she may run in the opposite direction. You never know what a woman would do. Its not funny but most guys would not want an instant family, and they will run away as fast as they can if they find out you have kids. So whatever you decide to do, remember to ( handle with care)!
2006-11-12 21:30:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Is that the new pick up line nowadays? No, you dont have to...not during introduction but do tell her during conversation. Kids....they are the best!
2006-11-12 21:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothin, babe, dont worry about it. dont tell her unless she asks first, and then only tell her if ur talking about each other. It also helps if u tell her u have a big penis.
2006-11-12 21:26:07 · answer #6 · answered by Holley H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋