I've been (with) a girl for 4 months now many,many times ;) ..she is engaged..I work with her.. when we dont see eachother its easy not to talk...thats no problem....when we work the same nights though...we cant leave eachother alone or for some reason she'll be angry at me and wont talk to me at all for some reason...my question is... How the hell do I forget about us (which I need too) and still see her 4 times a week for 8 hours at a time?? I try to ignore her at times but then she starts texting me...I tell her to leave me alone...then she gets mad AGAIN..and texts me more or just ignores me till next time....its a never ending cycle and its buggin the **** out of me!!!
2006-11-12 13:16:37 · 8 answers · asked by Sneed 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The eight hours spending time together, should be used wisely. Communicate, let her know that her behavior isn't acceptable. "Change starts with you!"
2006-11-12 13:24:36 · answer #1 · answered by ~Jessica~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about her. I know it doesnt sound easy but just look at the games shes playing with you .... and her fiancee. Now I dont know you but I imagine that you want a good girl. Not a whore that cheats on her man. She's probobly hot but think of it this way.... there is always someone hotter. Good Luck!
2006-11-12 13:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you speak to you boss and see if you can be moved to another department or floor (if thats possible) and if it's not then tell her if she doesn't leave you alone you will speak with the boss and get harrassment charges filed that should stop her even if you never intend to do it, she won't want to risk her rep
2006-11-12 13:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by insane illusions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is what we call an infatuation, she is obsessing over you ,
you should file a restaining order if it gets to serious, but just keep ignoring her she'll come around and leave you alone.
2006-11-12 13:20:41 · answer #4 · answered by astrid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be mean about it but you do need to explain to her that, one she's engaged, two she should be in love with whoever is her fiance, and three that you two are just friends or even just fellow workers. you can always be there for her but nothing more than a friend.
2006-11-12 13:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably wants to be your friend.......to bad shes ingaged. but if it really bugs you maybe what you need to do is either quit your job and get a new one far away or ask your manager to put you on an opposite shift then she is.......then about her texting you change your number. then she can't get ahold of you. good luck
2006-11-12 13:22:29 · answer #6 · answered by bearcatz_07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got a crazy one tell her you REALLY dont like her and to leave you alone
2006-11-12 13:21:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell her you are going to file a sexual harrasment suit with your employer.- or tell her fiance.
2006-11-12 13:19:01 · answer #8 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋