I sure am open minded, I have dated around 34 men in the last two years and they have all left me, and I am TIRED of it. I am SICK of being humuliated and having to tell people I can't keep a man past TWO weeks. I am sick of being embarrassed and alone and people asking "what happened to that guy?"
I am sick of guys getting my hopes up, telling me how wonderful and beautiful I am, begging for my number, and then abandoning me! I am TIRED of it. This last guy was true love, and NO MORE. I didn't think he'd be like the others. I have never in my life cried for two months straight, maybe 2 days, but never this long.
I am going out tonight looking HOT, and I will reject every guy that comes up to me, I have even been mean to the guys at church and I don't care, this society has done nothing to encourage men to treat women good, not even the church, I owe this world NOTHING. Men can't believe the new me! Any girl ever tried this before, avoiding men and treating them like crap?
2006-11-12 13:12:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I never knew what love was, with true love no one can ever take that person's place, and since the one person who I loved and also men in general have dogged me , then I am done for good, I have actually lost all attraction to men in general. So it desn't matter their personality anymore anyway or what they look like.
2006-11-12 13:14:05 · update #1
You IDIOTS. Listen at your typical MALE influenced stereotypes (even if you're female) I have never slept with any of these guys. This is why I don't like men, you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't. And no I'm not ugly or smell bad. So therefore, I just don't!
2006-11-12 13:26:46 · update #2
Maybe u just dated the wrong types of guys and couldnt see their true selves. If u are as "hot" as u say u are then u will mostly attract the types of men tht want to use u. I am sry u feel tht way about most men cause in all honesty most of us arent tht bad.
2006-11-12 13:18:50 · answer #1 · answered by Epidemic 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Girlfriend, I have been there. I have given up for good, but then realized why am I depriving myself because of what some jerk(s) did to me. It sounds like you're really angry and hurt right now, and you have a right to be. But I would also suggest that you take some time to heal yourself. Realize that you don't NEED the company of a man, but you definitely WANT it. Also, take some time to reevaluate the things you want from a guy. Just because a guy asks you out, doesn't mean he's the one for you. And it also doesn't mean that you should accept every date.
Figure out the things that make you happy by yourself, and then figure out the things that you want from your relationships. Write it down if necessary.
Above all, take care of yourself. If the guy you loved was really meant to be, he'd still be there.
Treating guys like crap probably will make you feel better for a while, but not in the long run. Besides, why would you want to do something to someone else, when it made you feel so bad?
2006-11-12 13:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by jae 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok i've joked about "giving up on guys" when i've had a bad date or something of the sort but never meant it. Maybe you need to try dating guys from another part of town...or the state, but by being mean and rude to guys give girls a bad name, perhaps you were being too easy and not checking these guys out. Whatever it is it isn't an excuse to be a jerk to innocent people who you dont even know.
2006-11-12 13:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Diverse Insanity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I too felt the same way you do, but then you'll meet someone who changes your mind. I'm going to tell you the guy I met was a co-worker and he did not become my boyfriend. I didn't fall in love with him or anything like that. I love his qualities and I know someday I'll find someone like him. I cherish his beauty both inside and out. He gave me hope in the sense of realizing there are good guys out there....
2006-11-12 14:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Martini Babee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up, not yet! And yes i have lost intrest in guys all together before and treated them like dirt. And it made me feal like sh**. Just becasue they had hurt me didn't mean they deserved it back, I refused to go to their level. And now i have a wonderful boyfriend, and i'm actually happy. Don't sink to their level, keep your hopes up. From here it's sink or swim. And i hope you make it to dry land.
2006-11-12 13:18:55 · answer #5 · answered by hippie_at_heart 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After a breakup or bad date I would take a break from guys depending on how long I needed to heal. Anyways, I would date again but not have sex with them asap. I believe that may be what went wrong. Having sex with a guy asap makes them think your not a challenge so they move on quickly. Best of luck and you will find the right guy one day.
2006-11-12 13:17:17 · answer #6 · answered by coolchick 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Why would I even give a sh*t?
Just turn into a raving bulldyke, you know you want to.
2006-11-12 13:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I take offense to that
2006-11-12 13:15:23 · answer #8 · answered by agnobles 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Do not have s e x with them.
You are tooo easyy - that's why.
2006-11-12 13:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋