HELP me, i want to stop feeling these feelings of lust and love.?

Question

I have been with my girl for forever and a day. and for all intents and purposes she is the perfect girl for me (size 6, 35C, athletic). she lives with her bestfriend who has a son. because the father is absent i have taken over the paternal role in his life (godfather). I totally love him and treat him like a son.
over the years I have admired his mom who is single and making it work without childsupport from the deadbeat biological dad. she started dating someone and all these feelings of jealousy came out of me (she says its like a brother thing). which is weird because i am not a jealous person. To make things worse i'm having sexual feelings for her. soo inappropriate! i don't understand - she is totally not my type. about a size 14 with well defined curves and 34DD's, eyes that pierce your soull and a dirty *** smile that captures your heart, funny, to the pt and sarcastic.
help! i want to stop these feelings while maintaining my relationship with her and my godson.

Answer 1

You may need to consider that maybe you're with the wrong girl. it sounds like your superficial self (we ALL have one) is keeping you with your girlfriend because she's the "ideal' looking girl...but perhaps your mature self (i don't mean that in a bad way!) is telling you to think with your heart. It sounds to me like its more than lust, and that maybe you're falling in love with this other woman regardless of her body type. It sounds like you already love her son.....

Think real hard about the relationship you're in...I don't know how you could ever date this girl since she is your current girlfriends bestfriend and roommate...but maybe it's just destined to be. Search your heart...And follow it.

Answer 2

Everytime you have sexual feelings for her, get up and go to the bathroom and hit yourself in the nuts real hard. After a few times you won't want to think about her anymore.

Answer 3

I'm not a believer in coincidences. "Go Figure!"