my boyfriend and i broke up about well we kinda parted ways like 2 weeks ago. anyways....i told him i wanted him back and i just called him the other day and said i wanted him backkk sooo bad its just i felt like i couldnt be his priority. he says he doesnt feel how he used to about me, but i think hes just puttin up a front. i told him i love him.....when we kissed we used to have electricity...im deeply in love with him still...i cant lieve without him but hes moved on. it seems. anyways he went up north for work...we had been doing long distance when he was down here but he said he hated the guilt i gave him for never bein here. he bascially just told me everything i ever did wrong admitting to nothhing, but he said he couldnt trust me and he couldnt see us together soon but he said maybe wed have another chance sometime and we could hang out when hes down here. do u think in time he can forgive or get over whatever his problem is???
2006-11-12 13:04:51 · 7 answers · asked by krista22here 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i didnt make him feel guilty for bein up north, just when he was down here , he was livin an hour an a half away
2006-11-12 13:17:39 · update #1
It sounds like he is putting you off because he does not want a commitment. More than likely he wants to date other woman but when he visits he wants to be able to get some from you too. Don't put up with that. Move on. Find someone that respects you and is on the same level as you. Find a man that is where you are in life. Take care.
2006-11-12 13:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard I went threw the same thing but it was the other way around and honestly I can't forgive my ex for what he did and the way he acted he actually asked me the other day if i could ever see us back together and i told him no he just hurt me so much I could never go threw it again but it depends on what you did and if you were making him feel bad for not being around because of work then thats not fair to him (i play golf and my ex was like your never around and i felt bad about it) but just give him some time and maybe he can get over it but sometimes love isn't enough I hope everything works out for you...
2006-11-12 13:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
anything is possible but you made him feel guilty for following his dreams because he couldn't be your priority-that's his "problem"
no one wants to be with a dream crusher
sounds like he forgave you-the trust issue is something different-were there problems with trust before?
Just make sure that when he comes home you don't end up being a sex buddy-that wouldn't be good for you because you care for him too much :-)
Be his friend and hang out with him-you never know what the future holds!
2006-11-12 13:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you broke up the first time, you might end up being better off without him.
2006-11-12 13:08:22 · answer #4 · answered by chickapea777 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya he will he just wants a lil space for lil while he was just kinda mean bout the way he told you give him space but still talk to him
2006-11-12 13:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by green_tractor_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No sorry, i don't think so. Sounds like he has really moved on.
2006-11-12 13:08:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.
your a bit too clingy.
find another man.
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2006-11-12 13:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by sweet_chica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋