the farthest ive gone is given head and so now i wana kno wat sex is like but i ahvent found the 'right guy', theere have been guys that wanted to get in my pants but i havent felt they were the right guy or that there was a special enough bond between us. now i am wondering if when u loose it if everything changes. this is what i hear at least. i also hear it sux ur fist time & it hurts. true or false?
2006-11-12 13:02:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
true. first time there's not much in it for the girl. the guy gets done too quickly, and there's not much lubrication which means a lot of pain and just overall horridness.
2006-11-12 13:05:08 · answer #1 · answered by nickname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first time was my girlfriends first time also. She was on top and was in control and that worked good for her! She did what she needed to feel good without pain and took her time and it was awesome.
It was wonderful and we never rushed into it. We had fooled around for months and pleasured each other for months before we went "all the way". So don't think you have to do it all the first time. Get naked explore each other pleasure each other but don't do anything because you think you "Have To" do it because you "Want To"
Make sure the guy is right and the time is right and the place is right, you can't be comfortable if you think your parents or brother or sister could walk in at any time, or in the back seat of a car(don't waste this precious moment there)
2006-11-15 06:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by me4tennessee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a girl it is a life altering permanent change that you cannot take back. Yes it will hurt most of the time, you will be asking many more questions than just this one after you have sex for the first time. My advise to you is wait until you are married, I know that may sound strange in todays society, but your husband will love you that much more, more than you could ever imagine.
2006-11-12 13:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by droopydog88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cannot answer for girls so i wont
just go out and try it my phone no is 077xxxxxxxxxx i am free from 3pm till 8....
if your worried about pain try experimenting with toys there's load out there
2006-11-12 13:14:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youre so young. Just wait til you mature a bit. And stop running about "giving head". You'll be better off for it.
2006-11-12 13:12:23 · answer #5 · answered by birdie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does hurt , but you get over it cause it feels sooooooooooooo good . You feel loved and on top of the whole [ if its with the RIGHT GUY ]
2006-11-12 13:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by Wonder woman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is pure pain nothing but pain that is why you should wait until your married that way if you cant handle the pain and faint he can take you to the hosp and ok treatment as he is then next of kin.
2006-11-12 13:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurts like H.E.L.L..........lol
2006-11-12 13:12:07 · answer #8 · answered by Lace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
feeling adult already?
2006-11-12 13:04:17 · answer #9 · answered by peter71 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋