Last night, at a house party. I was talking to a girl for hours and then we made out for about an hour and talk some more. I really like this girl, i knew before the house party. But i have only known this girl for about two months. And i see most days when she is on break. I was wondering how i should approach this. I don't want to scare her off. I had a great time even when we were lying down on the crouch talking, it wasn't the making out as much to be 100% honest. Which is strange because i'm a guy. Any idea's would be great, and yes i did get her number, but i have yet to txt or call her, i think waiting 3 days would be best. Just let me know what ye all think:) Cheers
2006-11-12 13:01:21 · 11 answers · asked by hidawallace 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well why wait to txt her?????????? send a txt saying that you had enjoyed the conversation and would like to talk some more. Waiting hmmm sometimes works sometimes too late !!! Tell her you like her company and would like to get to know more, for time being does not have to be relationship right away. just explore eachother and options
Cheers
2006-11-12 13:13:59 · answer #1 · answered by Blaze 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are probably right, give it a couple of days before calling or texting her. When you do call, give her the impression that you are interested, but you're not desperate or stalker material. Then, just continue talking to her... get to know her, and let her know you. Whatever you do, don't lie to her at any point in time. If you do and she finds out about it, she will feel as if the whole relationship was based on a lie. When you guys both feel comfortable with one another, ask her on a date... a real date. Wine her and dine her, and let her set the pace. See how she works, and all the while she will be wanting you. Good luck.
2006-11-12 13:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by black_beauty18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't wait 3 days it's so played out. Call her in 2 days and just say hi and ask if you can see her again. That's it and make a date and see how it goes
2006-11-12 13:31:30 · answer #3 · answered by traci s 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH HELLO!!!! Don't wait 3 days to call her.....text her and say she's gorgeous and you will call her tomorrow!......when you call, ask her what she'd like to do???? As you have already tasted her (in a way)! She may be embarrassed as to how forward she was and may like to take it easy, so suggest dinner and see what happens;-}
Don't leave it as she may think that she was too forward and you don't like her!!!
AAAAAAAAAAAAAW.......I luuuuurve a good ol' love story! hehe
Invite me to the wedding!? ehehe X
2006-11-12 14:26:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 days sounds just enough to keep her interested and not enough to see her scared youain`t gonna call. the best of luck and I hope it goes well.
2006-11-12 19:20:45 · answer #5 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, it sounds like it's mutual, just keep doing what you've been doing. Don't wait too long...maybe 2 days..?
2006-11-12 13:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by teary chocolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why to call here? you SHOULD HAVE DONE THAT THE NEXT DAY BEINGS YOU HAVE ALREADY MADE OUT AND HAVE ALREADY TALKED AT THE PARTY. She's probably already thinking ,why hasn't he called me yet ? Iknow i would be , go for it for havens sakes ..call her!!!!!!!!
2006-11-12 13:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by fefe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 day wait is cool.
Ask her out and make it somewhere you can talk though!
2006-11-12 13:05:45 · answer #8 · answered by Lorraine R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her out on a date
2006-11-12 13:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just answered your own question baby.
2006-11-12 13:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋