Ok this one is kinda confusing..I met this guy about 2 months ago..when we met he told me he didn't want a girlfriend because his last one was really crapy.. But ever since we met we have been hangin out so much. he took me to a concert, the movies, he is just so good to me.. but last night we had plans to hang out after he was done work.. which was at 8.. 11 oclock comes around and im still tryin to call him but there is no answer..
I talk to him the next day and he told me that he fell asleep and that he was really sorry.. i just dont no what to believe, why would he go and spend all this money on me, then just ditch me like that..im so hurt.
2006-11-12 12:53:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's obvious that he flaked in this case.
But, don't be overly critical or judgemental of this action of his --- he probably needs time to resolve his internal issues.
Try not to bite off his head too much, but do let him know (subtly, if possible) that such kind of conduct is not appreciated.
And bear in mind, this DOESN'T mean that he has ditched you. So, keep at it!
2006-11-12 13:03:11 · answer #1 · answered by Himalayan Mystic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I talk to him the next day and he told me that he fell asleep and that he was really sorry.. i just dont no what to believe, why would he go and spend all this money on me, then just ditch me like that..im so hurt. "
You're crazy. What if he really did fall asleep? Or need a night alone for some private reason? Is it ok for him to be alone one night without the relationship being over? If this is the case (And we wasn't off with some other woman) then you may need to loosen the grip a bit.
Holding on like that, like you'll die if you don't see him for 12hrs when you've been seeing each other for 2 mths....?
2006-11-12 13:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw, give the guy a break! Did it never occur to you that he might be telling the truth? He didn't ditch you; he fell asleep, missed a date, and apologised for it. If he makes a habit of doing this then you maybe need to talk to him, but meantime ease off unless you want to want to come across as untrusting, melodramatic, crappy girlfriend #2...
2006-11-12 12:58:12 · answer #3 · answered by pompeii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Come on give the guy a break he maybe was tired he didn't mean to ditch you he probably sat down to rest and fell asleep.
2006-11-12 12:56:36 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he really did just fall asleep. I`ve ruined a relationship over it, so take my advise, don`t assume that someone is lying. No relationship can function without trust.
2006-11-12 12:56:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look don't be hurt he obviously told you in the begining what was up and you excepted that and work is tyering and he is HIS OWN MAN
and if you get mad at him for falling a sleep after a hard days work well then your selfesh
put your self in his position so just let it go
2006-11-12 13:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by daview1234 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont believe that he went to sleep but thats my op. anyway i dont know why he spends money on you like that if he didnt like you, most guys wouldnt do that, i've wondered that too.
2006-11-12 13:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by MiaDiva28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be hurt he probably really did go to sleep and didnt want to call and tell you cause he thouht you would be mad if he didnt take you and was scared to call and tell you
2006-11-12 12:57:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋