How do I....?

Question

dress so a guy sees me but realizes i am not an easy piece of candy that they can eat and throw away the wrapper? like clothing advice. I am 15 and have never been asked out or gone on a date or even been kissed! I sometimes wonder if I am even pretty or attractive at all.

Answer 1

first off you are beautiful and don't let any one tell you different. Just be yourself and dress in what makes you comfortable. I would not be too worried about guys right now because i did not get my first kiss until i was 19. Boys at this age is nervous and don't want to get turned down. Try to make the first move by asking the guy out

Answer 2

Stop worrying first of all. Everyone goes through this time of wondering. Relax and enjoy just being "YOU" join a youth club or a church group where you can meet and mix with people of your own age and there will be a someone for you eventually, " He" is out there and probably just as concerned as you whether some girl will like him and go out with him. Always be clean, hair, nails, teeth, clothing, and tidy, My brothers used to tell me guys like "natural" so go gentle with the makeup, a little is better than a lot.You don't have to have the most expensive clothing or latest fashion to impress a guy, the right guy will not even notice what you wear and won't care if you are dressed in jeans and t shirt or a dress.

Answer 3

Sweetie,don't question yourself! It's not you. I was 18 when I got my first real kiss. I am willing to bet all my money that guys don't come up to you because they are afraid you will reject them. They may even think that you are a little heartbreaker yourself and are afraid. I agree with you about not wanting to dress too "sleezy". If you want to get there attention,it isn't the clothes you ahould worry about,you should make yourself know by letting them know what kind of person you are. Even though I am old fashioned and I too prefer when guys come up to me,maybe you should make the first move on a guy and ask them out. I hear guys find that attractive.
By the way, if you are still worried about your attire/cltohes, the preppy style is in right now. Just some tight (but not too tight),cute jeans and a polo/collared shirt will do. I really think you are capable. And besides,don't rush it. It will happen,trust me. Good luck!!

Answer 4

I'm 16, and I've had 2 boyfriends, never been kissed. It's not all that bad is it? lol. Okay, it depends on your body type. If you have enough "boobage", then try to show that... but not too much. Wear a mini skirt WITH LEGGINGS. If you don't, then they probably will think you're easy. Leggings cover you, and don't make you or the guy feel that you're being easy. If you're short, wear a heel that isn't too tall, but tall enough. You want to be shorter than the guy. And, if you're tall [like me], then wear a cute flat or a one incher. I've never seen or met you, but you probably are attractive. They just haven't noticed yet. Honestly, I wish you the best of luck, and I hope you get good advise. Let me know if this helped any.

Answer 5

Oh God, at 15 you don't have to worry about being attractive to guys your own age, because you are, OK.
The thing is that at 15, the guys your own age are either afraid to let you know how attracted they are to you, or are afraid their boys are gonna find out about it & get teased for it.
At 15, I should hope that you've never been kissed. There's plenty of time for that to happen, you will want to have a little more confidence, & a higher view of yourself before you want to start kissing boys.
I like what you said about wanting boys to know that you aren't a piece of candy. It means you have a good mind, & you are justified in trusting your judgement on these matters.

So relax, have fun, & date when you are ready.

Answer 6

I have the same problem. it seems like some guys like me, but I am too afarid to ask, plus I can't date till 16 and I am 14 (15 very soon) I can probably secertly date someone or talk my parents into letting me date next year before I turn 16. Just find someone that likes you for you and not for your clothes. I am sure that you are pretty.

Answer 7

Beauty comes from the inside out; always remember that you make the clothes, the clothes don't make you. But also, do you dress feminine? Carry yourself well and demand respect and you will get it. It's o.k. to be 15 and not be asked out on a date. Concentrate on your education & don't worry about dating.....it'll come in time.

Answer 8

I'm sure you're pretty, don't worry about that. Even if you aren't that stereotypical thin, tall, blonde girl. Remember that everyone is beautiful to someone. And that you should be beautiful because someone loves you - they shouldn't love you because you're beautiful.

I'd say that you can go ahead and wear girly clothes, if that's what you want... skirts and the like. But don't make it trashy. An outfit can be ruined by a skirt that's a little too short, or a shirt that's a little too low-cut... you know what I mean?

When I try for skirts, I look for something fingertip-length or nearly so... don't wear something washcloth-sized, please. And you should never be able to see your bra because your skirt is so low-cut. :)

Answer 9

wear a nice white ,almost see threw ankle length skirt, with lots of frillies stuff on it old fashion like and on top wear a black or purple vest kind of thing that is like velvet and looks so soft everyone wants to touch it. don't have a vest buttoned up to the top show some cleavage. the vest be tight fitting of coarse and for foot wear tall boots that match your vest . next wear a hat i have never seen a girl that didn't look hot in a hat. if you really don't like hats then wear a big bow in your hair . al little bit of make up only a tiny bit and you could carry a nice old fashion umbrella if its a hot sunny day.
that is what you should wear stuff like that .Never pants always a dress or skirt . As your role model you should watch ghost whisper with jenniffer love hewit she always look hot and great in the stuff she wears.

Answer 10

It doesn't matter how you dress 100%, it has to do with your attitude. If you look like your always having fun and people try to spend time with you, ALL guys will notice and try to get your attention. Just dress yourself but a little nicer. I really don't know your style. Always smile, and laugh. You'll attract some positive attention.