But i made an excuse by saying that my breathe probably smells bad and that we shouldnt.. but really i just think id mess up and hed think Im a bad kisser or something.. Im not sure how to actually do it the right way, if there even is a right way
2006-11-12 12:02:52 · 19 answers · asked by XoxSpiCyyy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He knows that Ive never done it before by the way... I know that he has. But im not like scared to tell him, because i have, an dhes not forcing me or pushing me or anything. he compltely understands, its just me.. Its not that i dont tihnk im ready. Because i want to, im not like scared of anything but HOW the kiss will be. I know it wont go further than cuddling and this.. I know that he understands me and everything, just this would be my first REAL makeout kiss, (ive regularly ksised on the lips before) and i dont want to mess it up for myself.. i just want it to be pleasurable for me.. and well and him.
2006-11-12 12:17:50 · update #1
Kissing is something that's mostly learned on the go, but you can practise on the back of your hand. It does help to make sure your teeth are brushed first.
2006-11-12 12:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, practice makes perfect. You're not going to get anything right the first time. If you are comfortable enough, tell him that you are shy and have never done this before. Since he's your boyfriend, just be honest and tell him you are nervous. It'll be fine, I'm sure he will be cool about the whole situation.
2006-11-12 20:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by curlyq4990 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun we all go through this let me tell u but u cant mess up. unless u go all over the place like that movie the date movie if u keep your month on his yall do fine. dont worry about it he more than likely is a bad kisser so dont worry just go on about it. if u tell him this more times he is going to think that u dont like him and that something is wrong with him. just go on about the kiss.
2006-11-12 20:06:27 · answer #3 · answered by tyler's baby girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh here we go again, another c.ockteaser. Personally I don't understand why girls invite guys around to their place, and when the mood is right and nobody else is around and then all of a sudden something goes on inside your minds that tells you girls to stop. For christs sakes , dont lead the guy on if you don't want to put out. I have never denied any guy I have invited over.
IF YOU DONT WANT TO PUT OUT, DONT INVITE THEM OVER!
2006-11-12 20:07:54 · answer #4 · answered by hotbitch69_xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH just do it, you will enjoy it and there is no right or wrong way. The more you kiss the better you get jump in and enjoy. The first kiss is usually awesome.
2006-11-12 20:05:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that just happened to me on friday. lol. but there is no right or wrong way to do it everyone does it different. just tell him that you dont know how or that you've never done it before. either you can both learn from each other or he'll just show you how. good luck :)
2006-11-12 20:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by emowee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with what feels right and try to remain relaxed. Don't worry the first few minutes will be awkward but, once he starts turning you on you'll know what to do--believe me!
2006-11-12 20:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by faeriemagik 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are just scared to kiss anybody because you think it's going to go as far as sex all relatonships don't go to sex by kissing. If you'll kiss and he starts felling on you just tell him to stop and you are not ready for sex yet.
2006-11-12 20:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't a right or a wrong way. Once you start to do it, it will come to you naturally, it's like instinct.
2006-11-12 20:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u should do it everyone starts that way but once u do it ull get it i no i was that way the first time unless u wanna call someone to teach u how to do it lol
2006-11-12 20:06:19 · answer #10 · answered by hey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋