Is it certain personality traits he might have, or the way that he treats you? Is it certain subtle little things he might say or do that would cause you to choose him over a more handsome man?
2006-11-12 12:01:04 · 11 answers · asked by figment_of_yor_imagination 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A guy who is confident in himself. Women are naturally the more dependant sex (speaking generally) so it's really attractive when a guy dresses nice and acts like he doesn't NEED you, he WANTS you. See the difference? Good luck!
2006-11-12 12:09:16 · answer #1 · answered by iambic_chatterbox 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not beautiful by any means, but I am attractive to some men. I have certain traits that I am attracted to, but most of the men I have been with I chose for other reasons. The way he treats me is a big factor in my decision. His sense of humor is another. Self confidence is a must.
2006-11-12 20:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by deliannathaniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see, his sense of humor, what he's like around other people, is he an asshole or not. But mainly, how he treats me. That's the most important thing to me. If he was really good looking, then that's a really big bonus! If he's not so good looking, then it's ok. I wouldn't care. I seriously wouldn't.
2006-11-12 20:15:39 · answer #3 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion to you would to be:
1st be thoughtful. Leave her little notes to find.
Write her silly little poems even if they dont ryme i think it would be ok...
Out of the blue just stop to say hello, bring with you a cup of coffee and a flower.
Send her a ecard if you should know her email address.
Put rose buds all over her car...
I hope these little tips help
2006-11-12 20:07:42 · answer #4 · answered by Mellisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show lots of interest in her [not creepy kind]. Be very available to her. Offer to help with something. Show a similiar interest [hobby, etc.]. Be persistant in asking out, nicely. Tell her the ways that you think she is special. Be her friend, with the honesty of her knowing you like her more than that.
2006-11-12 20:11:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Be real. Be into something besides getting laid. Have your own life and your own interests. Be secure with yourself. Communicate for christ's sake. In other words: be stable and solid and strong and don't feed her lines. Handsome isn't everything. It's not even close.
2006-11-12 20:04:27 · answer #6 · answered by wildkitty822003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's his personality, maybe he's sweeter than the other's or more fun to be around, or maybe he is more sincere than the other guys, he doesn't always just talk about getting in your pants, he cares about you, not what you look like
2006-11-12 20:04:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good self confidence and self esteem...if you like you, and you have a positive outlook on life...that will shine out of you and people will notice...people like to be around positive people...
2006-11-12 20:25:01 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Picture yourself as surrounded with the results you desire . the universe is based on the law of attraction.
2006-11-12 20:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he gotta make u feel like u'r the only one on earth for him, and treats u well, and be very sweet to u
2006-11-12 20:04:23 · answer #10 · answered by me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋