ok last year i though this guy liked me. he would make jokes and talk to me look into my eyes. he would say hi across the court to me and wave and smile, and now this year I'm totally into him but he is acting differently. Now I'm thinking he doesn't like me. Did he ever like me or was he being friendly and saw that i was beginning to like him more and so he's pulling back. But sometimes i can swear he is flirting with me. why cant i read this boy?
2006-11-12 11:41:15 · 22 answers · asked by Angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he's not gay! he has had girl friends
2006-11-12 11:51:54 · update #1
You never know until you actually ask the guy. I suggest getting to know him either way, as I'm sure he will enrich your life whether you two become bf and gf or not. Simply be honest with him and be up-front. Guys(and I speak from personal experience here lol) don't like it when girls beat around the bush. They like a girl to be open and honest concerning their feelings and confusions about them. You can't "read" this boy because you don't *know* him! It's not really about reading someone, it's about getting to know them. Be bold and brave and *make the first move*, girl! It's the only way you're gonna find out!
2006-11-12 11:48:59 · answer #1 · answered by P3ngu1n_Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships never stay the same...all relationships are constantly changing. The question is, are two people getting closer, or are they drifting apart? For a relationship to grow stronger, it requires time together. How else can two people discover common ground and bond with shared experiences?
If you say you can't read this boy, maybe it's because you haven't understood the signals. You swear he is flirting, and at the same time you say you think he doesn't like you,...a contradiction. He may like you,. but like leads to friendship, not a passionate love affair or marriage. What's wrong with friendship? That's a pretty great relationship, and usually is the phase where you find out if the two of you are compatible and have chemistry. Find out if either of you feels like having a more exclusive relationship.
Your problems are in your head. Quit confusing yourself. Make friends, if you can. And enjoy it.
2006-11-12 11:50:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same scenario happened with me. Actuallty it turned out there was another female around he was intrested in. And i think she was an easier challege at the time. But after that was over he came right back. Now if im not mistaken this guy did like you, and if not he really wants to get to know you. You may have seemed distant and out of his reach so he decided to give up but couldn't....... or he found himself someone else for the time being. I seriously doubt he saw that you liked him and pulled away. Try being compleatly honest with him dont play any games or pull in punches be strait up with him let him know you llike him alot. If he still pulls away hes probably a BIG FLIRT and you don't need that in your life.
2006-11-12 11:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by Im that girl! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats happened to me so many times!
its just that guys think differently about girls than girls think about guys. if a guy sees a girl he likes, he will flirt for a while, and it will seem like he is into u. than it will seem like he never was-that means he found someone else. tell him ur feelings, than his old feelings for u might come back and now that it's in the open he wont be looking at other girls as much anymore
2006-11-12 11:44:44 · answer #4 · answered by dramateen23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry i had exactly same problem and still do but me n da guy are still liking each other while nethier wants to nmake first move so hold on n try to make him notice that u like him and things will get better trust me ask him this question as if it was some 1 elses question and see what he will say that would help and then confess and tell him its ur problem between him and u i hope i answered ur question
2006-11-12 11:45:02 · answer #5 · answered by susan 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that before, he felt like you were just a good friend. Now he likes you, but he's a little shy because now it feels different to talk to you. I'd give him another chance.
2006-11-12 11:44:53 · answer #6 · answered by rath 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer your question, yes. Men and boys can be more fickle than girls and women. More of them like the chase and then when it's over, they look for the next chase. Get over it and move on. He's not for you.
2006-11-12 11:45:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! Just like you can stop liking your sister.
But in this case, you are the one in love. Until you talk to him, you will never know how he feels.
Stop waving, start talking if you really like him before someone else grabs him.
2006-11-12 11:45:02 · answer #8 · answered by femora 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea its possible for a guy to stop liking a girl. but he might just not want to be to obvious or he got tired of nothing happening. people change things change he probly still likes you. if you like him flirt with him give him signs that let you know that you like him.
2006-11-12 11:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by yurbuddy04 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may b cuz it's too late. he wanted u but u didn't respond. he took dat as a no. i guess he gave up. or may b he got another girl. but i think cuz he didn't think u like him. so he gave up. but if u say dat he's still sometimes flirting wit u. may b he likes u still. jus dozn't think u like him. tlk 2 him. don keep ur pain inside.
2006-11-12 11:48:55 · answer #10 · answered by ummestarz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋