Ok this guy and I have been friends for about 7 years and I was friends with his sister 1st and they are twins....well we hung out on friday night and it turned into a date...it was really sweet hes about the last good guy in this town...and I think he really does like me but we haven't told his sister and I want to know if I am crossing any friendship lines with her before him and I go further because honestly I don't know if I want to lose her friendship over this...can someone give me some help on this????
2006-11-12 11:33:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Really the only thing I can say to you, being a twin with a boy myself, is talk to your friend before the relationship goes too far. Because if it does, without her knowing, then it just seems like you two are sneaking around and betraying her trust.
For the most part, I don't think your friend would have a problem with it. She might think its a little bit weird, because that's her brother and all, but it might turn out to be a good thing.
2006-11-12 11:44:31 · answer #1 · answered by Patty_08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she shouldn't mind at all. As long as you dont break her brothers heart she shouldn't really mind. If you really like him and he feels the same way about u then you should go ahead and tell her. Trust me i really dont believe you will lose her friendship over this. only if u a CHEAT that you would lose her friendship. if u know that u will cheat dont even take it to the next step meaning telling his sister. Just sit down with her and ask her do she mind to be honest its not even her business because this is about u and him not u, him, and her. but u cherish youll friendship enough to tell her. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-11-12 11:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by Fallin out of Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay me personally I don't want none of my friends dating my brother. But when your friend to hang out with you and go to the mall and stuff and her brother be like no I want to spend time with you and then you going to be stuck between them two. Ask her how see feel about it first then you and her twin start dating. But let me give you a hint a fiendship is better that a boyfriend relationship.
2006-11-12 11:42:19 · answer #3 · answered by HIS CHICK FORVER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay...have you ever talked to his sister about having a potential relationship with her brother? and has she ever hinted at not wanting you to go out with him? you could just tell her that you really like him...and see how she reacts. you don't need to tell her that you two are already in sort of a relationship, and see her point of view on the whole issue. if she seems very opposed to the idea, then you need to make the choice...one or the other. if she doesn't seem to mind, then go ahead: start a relationship with him.
2006-11-12 11:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by water_admiral 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything you need to talk to your freind. If she is cool with it then go for it, if she isn't then back off. It is never worth losing a friendship over a guy.
If she is cool with it be cautious though, don't ditch her for her brother.
2006-11-12 11:36:47 · answer #5 · answered by jelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it certainly relies upon on how the area is dealt with. for sure, you'll be able to desire to think of of your acceptable pals thoughts. merely say, yah i think of he's an extremely large guy. bypass away it at that. it is going to open your pals ideas to the probabilities of you and her brother collectively. despite the fact that, continually keep in mind that her thoughts are additionally blanketed in this available relationship. She has to computer screen out for the two, you and her bro. If it ever got here up, talk over together with her approximately it. permit her be attentive to you admire her thoughts and what you may prefer to work out ensue. talk approximately it like acceptable pals could. it variety of feels like this guy trusts you :) if he's hinting approximately breaking apart along with his lady chum then he's clearly not that pleased together with her. tell him to persist along with his thoughts and do what's suitable for him. be certain you talk on your chum till now pursuing her brother. Its respectful =)
2016-10-17 05:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by mctaggart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her about it, dont do anything behind her back if you still want her as a friend.
tell her you're into her bro, see if its ok with her and make sure then even if you guys break up, she'll still be your friend
2006-11-12 11:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by kale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the feelings are mutual between you and your friends brother than you both tell her at the same time and see how she reacts but she should support you and her brother
2006-11-12 11:37:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
First, you need to check with your friend and see if it's okay.
2006-11-12 11:38:32 · answer #9 · answered by Chyna C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really its up to ur friend... i suggest you go talk to her about it...
2006-11-12 11:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by SweetiePie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋