2006-11-12 11:26:44 · 12 answers · asked by Cori 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you wanna detach your self emotionally, you gotta do it psychologically. You gotta keep tellin and reminding yourself why you wanna detach yourself from this person, list all their flaws, why they hurt you, etc. You have to psychologically psych yourself out and by doing this it should make it easier. Also try to not spend time with this person for a while, it doesn't help to get over someone when you see them all the time.
2006-11-12 11:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by c@ramel_m@mi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you had a physical relationship with this person? If so, this is a prime example of the reason you should wait until marriage for sex. However, if sex has not played a part in this emotional attachment, the best thing to do is get away from the other person, as far away as possible. But once you have become emotionally attached, it is next to impossible to detach.
2006-11-12 11:33:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to cut emotional ties fully is to cut physical ties, too. Simply put: get away from the person, don't talk or email or call for a few weeks. Time and space heal all wounds. Best of luck!
2006-11-12 11:29:04 · answer #3 · answered by wildkitty822003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First detach from them physically and cease communication if you can...it's easier to end emotions, if you don't have to see or speak with them...
It takes some time, and you have to desire the emotions to end (or put them away in a safe place) or it won't occur...I've done it before when a guy I was dating broke up with me, then about a year later wanted to spend some time together...I made sure emotions wouldn't come into play the 2nd time...couldn't afford for them to...
2006-11-12 11:30:04 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was thinking about the same thing I have a girlfriend well we where engaged and we are trying to split up but it is so hard and to move on when you have so many plans together and now trying to move on and get her out of your mind I guess the first week is hard let me know how you do it good luck
2006-11-12 11:35:12 · answer #5 · answered by isitreal1963 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time is the best thing. After my boyfriend and I broke up I tried to get him off my mind. To do so I started calling friends, talking to my family more and just building stronger relationships with others. It's kind of like growing out of a relationship. But, Time definitely heals. Hope this helps.
2006-11-12 11:34:00 · answer #6 · answered by elush613 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hard if ya really have a close relationship. KEEP busy, mentally, physically etc. If u find yourself thinking about the person, do something else.
2006-11-12 11:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's is a hard process...just make a commitment to yourself that you will no longer subject yourself to this person....and move on!! It won't be easy if you really care for them but if its in your best interest...you should give it an honest try!!
2006-11-12 11:30:32 · answer #8 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy, pack up everything that reminds you of the person and try not to think about them. If you find your mind wandering.. go busy yourself with something... Eventually you won't think of them at all.
2006-11-12 11:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by Monkeybunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to not have anything that reminds you of him/her. It will take time so be patient.
2006-11-12 11:34:15 · answer #10 · answered by pretty_nice_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋