My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. We use to get along really good, and now he wont even answer his phone when I call him. I really don't want to be with him anymore, but then I hate being alone. What should I do?
2006-11-12 11:24:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why don't you want to be alone? A first kiss, the uncertainty in a first date, the ability go out whenever you want and do whatever YOU want, are greatly underestimated. I am married and love my husband so much, but sometimes I miss these things. Not to mention you will have your pride. So my advice is, don't call anymore and start having fun. If you worried about sex, you can do that by yourself too, so no big deal! Live it up girl!
P.S. To anwser your question he acts like that because he is not mature and doesn't repect you enough to tell you things straight up and to your face (sorry!)
2006-11-12 11:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by noelis12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I strongly think that honesty is the best policy. I would suggest that you get together with him and really ask him if he really wants to be with you, because ya'll haven't communicated with one another. Probe each other and find out just what is wrong and whether or not you should move on with your life. You can't stay with someone just because your fear of being alone. Which would you rather have? A loveless, communicationless relationship, or to go find someone who will truely love you for "you"?
2006-11-12 19:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by P3ngu1n_Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another b/f..
Treat finding a b/f like finding a job..
You want a good paying job with a wealthy company, good benefits, good future, security, insurance, health care, something you enjoy doing, nice environment,...Check his credit, where does he live ? What does he drive ? Is he divorced ? Why ?
What kind of credit cards does he have ? What is his history ?
Where does he work and how much does he make ? What is his education & future earning potential..
You are offering a MAN ( not a boy ) something very very valuable, YOURSELF....
You want something valuable in exchange...
You want to be taken careof properly...
You want a lover and a best friend taking care of you in exchange for being there to provide for all his personal needs & desires.
Before marriage, get a good / fair pre-nup...
2006-11-12 19:39:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he doesn't want to be with u either (not trying to be rude)So my suggestion to u would be don't call him anymore and start dating other guys u might find that u are better off without him and happier too.i know its hard being alone been there done that but with a boyfriend like u have now u don't need enemies
2006-11-12 19:31:32 · answer #4 · answered by Shonna L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he just really gotten comfortable with you. Men forget that the same effort they put forth trying to win you over they should continue putting it forth to keep you. I bet if you left he'd open his eyes and realize your there. He could be acting that way to get rid of you because the *** has other interest but is not man enough to just tell you. Think it through, talk to him, and let your heart decide.
2006-11-12 19:30:20 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Conservative 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes being alone can be good, cause time with yourself is very important. Don't be with him just because you don't want to be alone. You're with somebody because of the right reasons. Leave him and move on life is too short for you to be wasting your time
2006-11-12 19:29:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling him.. that is apparent that he wants you to stop. he wants to break up but is to chicken to do it properly. so this is his way to do it. clean with no hassle except for ur phone calls. just stop calling. have some dignity and respect for yourself and move on. find some one else. not wanting to be alone is a normal thing, but desperate clingy girls/guys are just that and sooooo annoying.
2006-11-12 19:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by michelle b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u 2 break up? Write him a letter and tell him all your feelings and mail it. He'll get the idea.
2006-11-12 19:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl be strong, let him go! How can you let something better come into your life when your holding on to the old!
2006-11-12 19:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and meet new people and new adventures .
2006-11-12 19:26:36 · answer #10 · answered by Geedebb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋