I have this friend who just told me that they have self steem problems and this friend is a guy and I'm really not sure how to help him out. So, I could use any advice that anyone has. Thanks
2006-11-12 11:20:03 · 8 answers · asked by Krissy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The earth is full of the power of attracton...tell your friend to fake it till he can make it...menaing tell himself to say to the mirror everymorning that he is so handsome on the mirror and they are great and this day will be excellent because i choose for it to be ..nothing can get me down regardless and i am just as good as everyone else. if they say it out loud every day and fake like they believe it thenthe law of attraction will attract positive upbeat people that will encourage them to move forward until they absolutely believe it. point in hand ....have you ever seen a couple that seems soooooo very mismatched..ie and ugly dog ugly man with the most beautiful woman...that man enforced the universal power of attraction, you will no doubt attract what you think good or bad. have you ever noticed how certain types of people hand with their own "TYPE" or heard someone say he/she isnt my type...that is how he sees himself and is what they attract. HONESTLY ...IT WORKS TELL YOUR FRIEND IT WORKS WITH EVERYTHING IN LIFE NOT JUST SELF ESTEEM. finances,love,friends,job interviews. limited thinking limits your abilities. I know that first hand.GO BUY YOUR FRIEND THE BOOK BY WAYNE DYER CALLED Nine Principles for being in balance. nobody can read this book and walk away feeling less than excited. it is about 12.00 at wal-mart.
2006-11-12 11:29:32 · answer #1 · answered by ***BUTTERFLY*** 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's good that you are friends with this guy, but why don't you try asking him where his low self esteem is coming from. Was he hurt as a child or abused?
2006-11-12 11:24:31 · answer #2 · answered by judy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a makeover and new clothes. Loose weight if its a problem. Any good change will promote better self esteme
2006-11-12 11:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you see him outside complement him on how good he looks. Positive things. And make sure he knows he needs to be happy with who he is because you can't love anyone if you don't love your self.
2006-11-12 11:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by My two cents 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get him a book on positive affirmations and tell him to read and him and every day repeat to himself and that he is a great guy and great guys have great friends who love and appreciate him for who he is.
2006-11-12 11:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by John J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first he has to find one thing that he can do well, then build on that, if he can write or sing or whatever, then he can do other things and so on and so forth. I hope you understand what I mean
2006-11-12 11:23:48 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hold his hand, and take him to a gay bar... His issues will disappear after a couple of pitchers of beer.
2006-11-12 11:23:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be a friend
2006-11-12 11:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by legna20v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋