Is something wrong with me. because he is a good lover and he works his a$$ off what should I do?
2006-11-12 11:15:09 · 17 answers · asked by Cherie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Before you guys have sex you should tell him to eat you out, it adds more stimulation and youre most likely to cu.m alot.*
2006-11-12 11:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should consider your state of arousal with other boyfriends for a comparison to this one----if in fact you were ever significantly active with another person, that is. If you used to orgasm more with another person, then perhaps this guy just doesn't do it for you---in spite of the way he "works" for ya. I'm a guy, so things are different for us of course. But sex is a very psychological thing for me. Perhaps this person doesn't mentally do it for you enough to get the level of arousal you need to orgasm, in spite of his, uhh..."work ethic." I can tell you that I dated a girl who had never orgasmed before many years ago and it did a number on my self-esteem---even though I knew it had nothing to do with me and that she told me right up front she was, for some reason, incapable.
2006-11-12 19:20:06 · answer #2 · answered by C J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it really matter if you really love him? Yeah, orgasms are AWESOME, but if you truly love him, then it should not matter. Maybe there are other issues here that your not be honest with yourself about in regards to your relationship with him and its holding you back somewhat, when it comes to sexual issues. If I were you, I would really take a good look at all of the variables in the relationship and go from there
2006-11-12 19:18:47 · answer #3 · answered by cyncase007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the more we know about our sexulaity, the more it helps. Still, it is not all. I think that you need to discover your body, to discover what is good for you. Every woman is different.
Maybe ask your boyfriend to be a partner in this reserch. can be even fun.
2006-11-12 19:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you, you probably just need different type of stimulation, or maybe toys. if you are able to orgasm by yourself, then maybe you can teach your b/f what works for you.
2006-11-12 19:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he a good lover?
Are you?
Maybe you should work harder at getting yourself off
2006-11-12 19:17:47 · answer #6 · answered by somebody cares 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U think?Please go to the library, internet, your doctor, check up on the subject. My guy can't always help me so I show him how or do it myself with his help so he doesn't feel left out. Guys usually *** quicker than girls, mostly if there is no foreplay for us!
2006-11-12 19:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a good woman for being with him that long but maybe its you and you both need to have counsling becuase you did say he works his *** off
2006-11-12 19:24:11 · answer #8 · answered by wilco254 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he use a vibrator on your clit ?
He needs a hand vibrator, one of those like in the
barber shops that straps on the back of his hand
so he can use his fingers ...His hand & fingers are vibrating...
It allows far greater control...
2006-11-12 19:21:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self stimulation hon, it works every time!
2006-11-12 19:16:34 · answer #10 · answered by blonde_bitch_norris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋