I have a crush on a guy that goes to my school. However, he doesn't know me but I know him because he's one of my friend's friends. We don't have any classes together. My friend said she would introduce me to him. BUT how do I keep on talking to him after I meet him when she isn't there?
I just want to get to know the guy, but he's an introvert. Help!
2006-11-12 10:29:09 · 17 answers · asked by Lynn T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so I went to a class after school to do some of my homework. In the class a lot of azn kids do their homework there. TO my surprise, the guy I have a crush on was there too. SO everyone left for the buses and he, this girl, the teacher, and I were the only ones left. I really wanted to say hi to him, but he was doing his homework...
I think I'm just too shy.
2006-11-15 16:43:36 · update #1
Okay. Well when your alone with him after your friend leaves.. well I would talk about my friend and ask like how they know each other. I wouldnt talk bad about her/him just like small talk. And if your uncomfortable with him when he leaves, ask your friend not to leave. Ask your friend if theres anything you and him have any thing in common.
If you have confindence, complement his appearance. Once when i was in that situation, i told this guy that he was pretty. (not in a gay way but i meant that he looked good) and when i told him he was pretty he just laughed and asked what i meant and then that would start a convo. Just always look him in the eyes and smile/laugh. Try not to fidget. He might be as nervous as you.
good luck dearie! email if you need any help with that/this.
2006-11-12 10:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any of the same subjects so you could suggest studying together? Do you have the same lunch period so maybe you could sit together then and chat?
Does he belong to any clubs or groups that you could join too?
Get creative...introverts can be hard to get to know, so you're likely going to have to work for this!
2006-11-12 18:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep talking to him after she leaves. Or tackle him and slap him in the face until he is forced to talk with you. Remember, if you have a personality people will want to talk to you!
2006-11-12 18:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by brighteyedboi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you WANT an introvert???? Better be sure before you leap off into never, never land!!! Good luck. Pops
2006-11-12 18:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about just walking up and say hi, then tell him you are possibly headed to lunch or a class and see if he is headed that way you may have to be a bit persistant
2006-11-12 18:32:39 · answer #5 · answered by photog50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meet him first then take it from there, you may not want to talk to him alone after that.
2006-11-12 18:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think talking on the phone is to sudden . get his screen name ! thats how everything starts . then when he sees you he knows who you are . and knows he can talk to you . then talking on the phone and hanging out will come soon . andd if your friend is his friend maybe you can all hang out with a big group . then talk to him more !
2006-11-12 18:32:17 · answer #7 · answered by xo_your_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start asking him questions about himself. Everyone likes to be asked about their likes/dislikes, family (don't push it if her hesitates), friends, interests, etc. That shows people that you are interested, and it makes them feel really good....
2006-11-12 18:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your friend what he is into so you will know what to talk about.
2006-11-12 18:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get his # and see if he wants to talk to you after wards!
2006-11-12 18:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋