2006-11-12 10:28:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, any time I've done any cheating I sent out very clear signals to my partner what I was doing. For example, I would say to Donna, "I'm going to be spending the night with Ruth. Don't wait up" or I might say to Brigette "Christina asked my over to her house for a poetry-reading; you're not invited"
I relied on her common sense to figure out what was going on.
I suspect that your boyfriend is doing the same sort of thing.
2006-11-12 11:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have doubts, he probably is. Does he disappear some nights or weekends? Does he work late "some" nights? Does he get called in to work a lot at night?
If you are really concerned, either follow him or have someone follow him when he is supposed to be at a certain place.
Good luck. Poops
2006-11-12 18:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he starts doing things out of the ordinary, like taking a shower ever day and changing his underpants when he does it too. Extra care in personal hygeine and apperance (attire).
2006-11-12 18:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by blackpus88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have ANy doubts he is cheating then u shouldn't be in a relationship with him well to answer yer questions if he seems a lil bit uneasy, or if he seems too busy and in a rush to finish talkin to u, when his baby names slowly stop there are so many clues
2006-11-12 18:32:19 · answer #4 · answered by thisgrrllovespurple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have reason to think he is, then something may be up...ask him about whatever it is that's got you suspicious. There are many potential signs of cheating....but almost all of them could also be signs of something else (that doesn't involved cheating).
What behaviors of his are you questioning?
2006-11-12 18:30:48 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him straight out.
If he answers with the phrase, "you're crazy," or any variation of that, he's cheating. Hands down, no discussion.
2006-11-12 18:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by wineboy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I caught my loser ex 2x by looking in his email inbox and checking his cell. he didn't act any different because he claims to be hitting on the girls 'for fun' and didn't ever want me to find out, so acting differently isnt always a sign. my bratty younger brother used keylogger to spy on me once. its pretty effective.
2006-11-12 18:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsmile 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You catch him at it.
If you don't trust him then you shouldn't be with him anyways. That's the basis of a relationship and if you don't have trust, you don't have much.
Just chill.
2006-11-12 18:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by brighteyedboi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he hesitates a lot to you or doesnt talk to you and doesnt want to go out with you anymore.
2006-11-12 18:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by ashley101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he acts different, doesn't call as much, seems far away, gets a lot of wrong number phone calls
2006-11-12 18:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by goodlookin.mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋