So my parents have taken me and my siblings out of the church where I grew up in. I understand where they are coming from, about why we had to leave, but now I dont have a youth group to go to, and I really want to go back to the church i was in because thats where my youth group is. My mom and dad think I should set all of these "emotions" aside, and just deal with it. I can't just turn off my emotions. They dont even want to talk to me about it anymore, their shutting doors. Help!!! I have no one to really talk to about it. At least on a consistent basis, what should I do? My brother/mentor "in Christ", his name is Steve, said I just need to hang in there, and if I ever need to talk, he's there, but its getting harder to hang on.......so tell me what I should do.
2006-11-12 10:23:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Talk with the Lord.
2006-11-12 10:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with your parents and discuss the real reasons behind your departure from this church. During this discussion tell your parents how your youth group has made you the Christian you are now. (I am assuming Christianity, here.) If they have viable reasons be open to joining a new youth group and actually make suggestions about your new church home. Explain to your parents that you want to be a part of this decision. Tell them that closing the door is not going to settle you down, but be respectful of their decision. If all else fails, hitch a ride to church with some of your youth group friends. Good Luck and don't forget to take it to the Lord in prayer. He will guide you and your family where you are needed most!
2006-11-12 18:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by alicia0821 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think that really sucks on your parents part because you shouldn't have to put your emotions "aside" cause they don't want to hear about them, or they just don't know how to help you!!!! There are things that you may be dealing with that could hurt you or with whatever you are doing. I think you should try talking to them, I realize that it may be hard but you should try, let them know it is really important and you need them to listen. And if they really just don't want to listen when tell them that you need to talk to someone, maybe a psychologist or something like that!!!! But if you need someone to talk to then find someone, no matter what it takes!!!! If your parents do decide to listen and be there, let them know that you want them to understand where you are coming from, and just not be parents and say "that is stupid" or anything like that!!! They should always be there for you no matter what, and they should try to understand your side!!! They should also be happy that you want to talk to them, and want there help and support!!!!!! Well i hope this helps in some way!! BUT NEVER JUST PUT YOUR FEELINGS ASIDE, THEY WILL ALWAYS COME BACK TO YOU IN SOME WAY!!!!!
2006-11-12 19:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by cheerpunk2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this but just maybe your parents know more about this church then u do. They are only trying to protect u.Why don't u find another church with a youth group? Or hang with the youth group outside of church.I wish u all the luck.If it gets that bad u can always email me.
2006-11-12 18:29:04 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would try to mail them a letter stating your points along with reasons. They may have a very legitimate reason for cutting ties. Ask them about it .. You just may agree after finding out their reasons. It sounds to me that your family isn't all that open with each other. I'd try to work on that.
2006-11-12 18:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is their reason? Why do they think that if u go u would be betraying them? Why can't they see that u are hurting so bad? Selfish. Talk to anyone you can 4 help!!! Good luck!!!!
2006-11-12 18:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋