I feel really bad latly. Im 18 years old i attend college, i cant seem to make friends too well i always fight with them or i lose interest, i cant get a gf, i dont have my license or a job, im bored, im tired, and annoyed with myself, i want to badly have a successful career i think about that alot, what should i do with my self??
2006-11-12 09:58:13 · 14 answers · asked by marcel r 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you really are depressed aren't you? i'm so sorry!! can you call home an talk to your family? you really need some help. do you have a councilor at school that you can talk to? i am worried about you so i'm sure your family would be too.before any of this can change you will have to seek medical help for your depression, that appears to be your whole problem, now i'm not a doctor so i'm, as well as anyone else here, just guessing and you really can't go by that, call your family, now, ok, good luck an God Bless!!
2006-11-12 10:06:30 · answer #1 · answered by snookieoo3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take long walks outside. It is beneficial physically as well as mentally - seems to help "clear the mind". Is it possible to get a part-time job to which you could walk? As someone else asked, are you in the right program in college - the one that is right for you? You can only truly excel in an area that you find interesting and rewarding. Try to concentrate on a hobby, again one that you find interesting. And get your license. Save money from your part-time job to buy a car.
I think all of these things will help you be a more well-rounded person. You won't have time to be bored and you'll be happier with yourself and others will notice. You'll be able to make more friends - male and female.
2006-11-12 10:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Oenophile... (Lynn) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're mostly likely having adjustment problem. go to your school's counseling clinic (if you're in a big univ, there should be one) or ask for a referral to one. find out what's making it hard for you to adjust. for the meantime, try socializing by joining school activities and school clubs that you may be interested in. find something productive to keep yourself busy.
do you live in the dorms? can you move back in with your parents until you get used to college life?
try finding a part-time job. this can help two ways: financially and give you a chance to meet other people.
are you taking too many classes? next sem, you might want to lessen the load. for now, organize your schedule. prioritize.
if you have money, go back home for the holidays and spend time with your family and friends. that may give you an extra boost.
college life is not easy. it takes a lot of adjustment, patience and independence. you're 18. slow down and take one step at a time. don't put too much pressure on yourself. every student in college want to be successful. but it doesn't mean you have to kill yourself in the process. good luck.
2006-11-12 10:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Chris E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being depressed can make you feel helpless and make you want to give up on life. Anything anyone will say probably won't make you feel much better. It is best to seek help at a crisis center or if you have insurance, with a counselor. You are young and you have a lot ahead of you. I think it might help to make a list of the things that you are unhappy with and work on these things one at a time so you do not feel overwhelmed. start with the most important to you. Maybe your license. You will probably feel much better when you can drive. Volunteering can improve your mood and make you feel like you are doing something good. there are lots of things you can do. But please do something or you can get even more depressed
2006-11-12 10:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by sarahharris25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, the depression part I feel for you but I have a solution for you get on anti depressants for your sadness, and as for not making friends.......get into alotta activities girls like active guys so that may evan solve your gf problem but if it doesn't don't make it your priority because then your just setting yourself up for a failure let time decide when you get a gf. as for your future career get a newspaper and look in the job ad and start applying for jobs. don't worry because there are other people out there feeling just like you are but the important thing to remember is your a winner not a loser............best of luck to you and your career
2006-11-12 10:14:24 · answer #6 · answered by bearcatz_07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, for one thing, you are in college so tell me, are you in the right program?! First of all, find something that you like to do as a job, once you get that, get a driving license, then a job!
2006-11-12 10:02:42 · answer #7 · answered by Webballs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r too young to think about your carrier now .first concentrate on what ur doing (high school or college).slowly try to make friends .u need one or two friends not a big bunch.if u can stabilize any relation ship u can get girl friends automatically.try to develop a hobby to get rid of boredom or go for dance class some times u need the help of some elders like u r parents to motivate and encourage u take their help
2006-11-12 10:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by red rose 5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what college you go to, but check to see if they offer counseloring {sp}, it always help to have someone to talk to, i know, i've been in therapy for 5 months and it's helped me a great deal. I go to a university campus to see my counselor, i was in a deep depression for 2 months because of a situation i was in, without my counselor i would have been really losted. Seek therapy, it'll help you out a lot. Good Luck!
2006-11-12 10:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by ~Twisted Sister~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to have atleast one friend maybe your prioritys arent right... put them in a list for wat u want most like have a goal put out and try to reach it...its impossible to make 100 friends at once try wit starting to make one friend and then maybe that friend will introduce u to their freinds but keep on doing your college work and if your arent to busy get a job but first you should get your license so you have a way to ge the the job and for the girl thing if u see a girl your intrested in introduce your self or compliment her
2006-11-12 10:02:55 · answer #10 · answered by daysha p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋