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Question

So.. theres this bully at school he makes fun of my cuz im white and hes black and hes in my health calss and we have projects and my teacher put me in his group and he always makes fun of me =( and i asked if i can join another group but my teacher said no what do i do i want him to leave me alone ??? help please im only 12 if that helps

Theres 4 of us in a group me and my friend and him and his friend

and i never even talked to him and he just makes fun of me because im white

Answer 1

First, talk to your parents or guardians. Next go to the head of the school/principal. try to solve the problem that way. If it doesn't work contact a lawyer. If that doesn't work then I don't know what will.

Answer 2

Hi there! don't feel afraid.
I'm a mom of 3 and my oldest is going into middle school next year, I worry about him having to deal with bullies when he gets there.(the middle school is in the same campus as the HS and you have 10 to 18 year olds crossing each other in school but as a mom I really hope that He'll come to me with any problems he may have and I think your parents feel the same way and they are your support give them a try before you do anything else ;I'm sure that the three of you will come up with a solution and above all let that bully know that you are not alone and warn him that you are going to the school authorities immediately if he does not stop that kind of behavior .

Good luck and be brave

Answer 3

Well if your teacher won't do **** about it then take it to the counselor and the principal. If they say no, then tell them it could mentally affect you later on down the road. Try not to feel bad because of this bully. If he is making fun of you bc u are white, then that is a racial slur/racial issue. Don't take this incident to heart and hate people of different ethnicities. It is just this one case. Tell your parents if the principal and counselor thing still fail.

Answer 4

What you want to do is build a case so you can sue the school for allowing sexual harasment to go on. First write down everything this bully says. Second ask you teacher to change groups. Third Explain to you teacher in writting that the bully is harrasing you and you want _moved_ Third tell you parents and get them to go to the principal and call the teacher.

Basically schools can not let sexual harassment go on like this, but teachers and school administrators are basically clueless.

Anyway if you start keeping records and put your requests in writting ( don't forget to keep a copy for you files ... ) then they really don't have any choice, if you get to the end of they year and they have not done anything about it ... you can sue them and end up with big money ( like $50,000 ...)

The problem is you are basically a nice kid who wants to go to school and to the right thing and get along with people and etc.
And you don't want to make a stink, unforunately this can get worse and worse because bullies don't like to stop and they are good at working around the teachers so they don't see what is really going on ( these bullys are getting smart)

But you need to do something about this, because it could end up with him raping you down the road ( don't laugh this kind of thing has happened ... and it starts with teasing.)

One key thing you say is he won't leave you alone. That is a big clue it isn't just once every couple of weeks. And the teacher won't listen.

I say keep records. Maybe you can sue the school for sexual harrasment and make big money. Or maybe you can just get the problem solved.

But they ( the teachers, your counsolers, and even maybe your parents) will make you feel like you are being bad and you are the one who is causing the problems .... which isn't true

Anyway this is totally a bad scene and I know teachers turn a blind eye to bullying in school and then they get you in trouble when you try to do something about it, even if it is just asking them for help ...

So remember these words "Sexual Harrasment" and keep records what he says, what the teachers do, hopefully somebody will get smart and help you out, but if they don't well keep records till the end of the school year and then sue them for like $50,000, you've got to ask for lots of money because the schools have a habit of turning a blind eye to bullying and not protecting the good students who do behave, and the large sum it penalize the schools. ( he if the is a big school district ask for lots more money) ... O.k. reality is you and I both just want the problem solved so you can go to school and class and not get harrasssed, unforunatley you have to prepare for a big fight in order to do that ... hopefully it won't end up in a big fight, but it might ...

Well good luck, I hope that helps ...

Maybe try talking to another teacher, one who likes you, maybe quite going to health class, go the the principal's office instead and tell the principal you are not going to health class you are staying here where it is safe, and print out this message and take it with you to take to the principal ...

basically Harrasment is not O.K. and Bullying is not O.K. and the schools should not turn a blind eye when it goes on, but they probably will and they will tell you its your fault ... bad schools ...

Good luck -- you have to stick up for your self ...

Answer 5

You need to go to the principal and/or consular. If he touches you at all (hit or poke) report him and start getting him detentions or kicked out of school. Also, get your parents involved, there is nothing like an angry parent to make the school system (and especially the teacher) sit up and do something.

Answer 6

it's possible this kid likes you. are your the only two in the group? level with him. tell him you're just trying to do the work and not to give you a hard time. it's also possible that you're coming off snooty to him. be extra nice to him, he'll probably feel bad and stop teasing you. if all else fails, talk to your teacher to put you in another group.

Answer 7

Oh sweety I understand your frustration. But to tell you the truth a bully does that just to get your attention. You know they say if you just ignore it then eventually they will move on to another person. But don't give this bully the satisfaction by getting upset in front of them. They love that, they thrive off of that. So just do the exact opposite of what they want you to do.

Answer 8

Talk to the teacher one more time if that does not work advise the teacher you would like to talk to the Principal. Be able to offer examples of what is said to you. If he is not willing to help you then advise them that you would like to talk with the head of the local school board.

Answer 9

Since the teacher won't do anything about it go talk to your parents and counselor. A bully in my daughter's class kept picking on the girls in the class and enough was enough, he was suspended for three days. He hasn't bullied anyone since.

Answer 10

There are a few things you can do.

Stand up for youself and just give it to him..tell him..look, if you don't stop harrasing me and making fun of me, you will be sorry! Show him that you are angry,Scream at him in front of other people! if you don't say anything, he will continue to do it.

Go to the pricipal and tell what's going on..this is not right girl..they will listen to you. trust me...you have to do something about guys like this..this has to stop! if you don;t do anything..this will happen to someone else..so ..it's your responsibility to do something!