I can only find stuff on men being afraid to committ, not woman and it is doing my head in as apparently I am a classic committment phobe and really want to overcome this!!
Thanks :-)
2006-11-12 09:29:23 · 6 answers · asked by winegal74 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I live with my bf now, I'm 39 and he is the first serious relationship I've had in 15 years. In those 15 years, I've RAN from 3 marriage proposals. Not really sure why, not so much the commitment, it was that I knew I didn't want to be married to those men. At this point I don't really care if I get married or not. This bf is the best and I'm happy.
Listen to your gut. It may not be commitment that scares you.
2006-11-12 09:43:08 · answer #1 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
::raises hand:: I am! I am! That is probably my biggest problem, but I think it has a lot to do with finding a guy that respects your boundaries. I am not sure that I truly have that problem anymore, I started seeing this guy a while back who is really good about respecting what I say and listening to my body language, and I haven't started feeling the relationship claustrophobia yet. It's great.
2006-11-12 09:40:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Top commitment phoebe here.I 've tried to overcome this with no luck.What's worse for me the moment a guy shows me any loving attention i run the other way i can't explain it.
2006-11-12 09:58:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sherzade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been with my partner for 10 years and we still don't live together, i did make it clear a few years into our relationship and he was OK about it, i have done it before and didn't like it....plus he lives across the garden from me so now and then he stays with me and i stay with him, but living together is not what we have really talked about much...were happy just as we are
2006-11-12 09:35:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me it's hard to imagine getting married because then I wouldn't be able to see anyone else...but then again I'm only 14.
2006-11-12 09:34:22 · answer #5 · answered by ! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, I'm just adamantly opposed to it. I only have myself to commit to.
2006-11-12 15:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋