i have been with my b/f for about two years now. he allways wanted to be with me as much as he could ,but recently he has been acting suspiciously. he goes off without telling me exactly where he is going.he only phones me from time to time. i discovered some lipstick marks on his collar last week, when i asked him about it ,he just said he must have wiped his fingers and got it from a door handle.he harldy looks at me in the eye. pls im i getting paranoid or is he seeing another gal?
2006-11-12 09:28:14 · 21 answers · asked by W.M.D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him again if the door handle he got it from was one in a brothel if he stutters, he is deffo cheating on you.
2006-11-12 09:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got lipstick from a door handle? Wow you must have caught him really off guard, Not to be overly blunt, but, who kisses a door handle? I think lipstick marks that he is not giving you a straight answer about are a pretty clear inclination.
2006-11-12 09:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can't believe you're asking this question when the evidence is in your face. if you suspect something is going on, you're very likely right. are you so gullible to believe such a far-fetched story about getting lipstick off a door handle as though someone was making out with the door? follow your instincts.
unless, he's the other woman as in cross dressing.
2006-11-12 09:32:17 · answer #3 · answered by loving 40+ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have some real concerns. You really should stop calling him.... sit back and see what happens. See if he keeps the relationship with you going. If he is cheating cut your losses now. Don't ask him why.... there is no answer. Some people are cheaters...don't take it personally - his problem..... but back to your question.... put the ball in his court. Leave it up to him to prove his interest is only with you.... good luck
2006-11-12 09:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by LitChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking it is probably happening. Along with the obvious other things going on, the changes in behavior, the lipstick, not looking you in the eye. I would say, YES! Your not paranoid, he is cheating. Good luck and God bless
2006-11-12 09:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you already know the answer to this one. Clue one if he has lipstick on his colar he didnt get it from a door. He is not being honest with you leaving and not telling you where he is going. Calling only when he wants. Follow him one day and find out get out with a friend he doesnt know and find out.
2006-11-12 09:31:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeap he is cheating. my ex will come home smelling like ***** and when ask him he told me he ate fish.
First of all, the above answer is a classic...lol
He is cheating. The best thing is to retain your self-respect and just kick him to the curb. Then sleep with all his friends, that always works to rub salt in the wounds. BTW, did I mention that he and I are really good friends? LOL!!
2006-11-12 10:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by bongfuel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
door handle? do you honestly think the door handle wears make up? i'd say that he is cheating on you but the only way to know is to straight up ask him whether he is or not there could be a small chance that hes not and is planning something special but do you think he is or not? trust your gut
2006-11-12 09:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by jinx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All signs point to yes, he is seeing someone else. However, that still may not be the case. I think you should talk to him about it and see what he says. If he avoids the subject, then your suspicions are probably justified.
2006-11-12 09:30:39 · answer #9 · answered by skichamonix515 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL, got it from a door handle, that is priceless. He is a bald face liar. He's cheating all right, you can take that to the bank.
2006-11-12 09:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's seeing another girl all the signs seem to be there.
2006-11-12 09:30:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋