Me and my gf just broke up yesterday and she told me that if i want her back I need to get her something spectacular something that is cute and romantic. Problem is she doesn't like Stuffed animals Roses or cards...So I need some Ideas I'm drawing a blank.
2006-11-12 09:20:52 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and my gf just broke up yesterday and she told me that if i want her back I need to get her something spectacular something that is cute and romantic. Problem is she doesn't like Stuffed animals Roses or cards...So I need some Ideas I'm drawing a blank.
2006-11-12 09:30:07 · update #1
sorry I'm new to this, so don't pay attention to the other "additional Details"...but yeah we broke up last night bc I kinda ruined our night I wasn't being very loving towards her and she got very pissed and left me at the party. I tired to talk to her today but she is still pissed, all she said is that ther only way I could get her back is if I get her something spectacular.
2006-11-12 09:33:03 · update #2
Ask her friends or get her flowers jewlry and candy
2006-11-12 09:22:36 · answer #1 · answered by ALt 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay, so why did you guys break up? Is it because you don't pay enough attention to her, or is it some other reason? If it's the first, I can see, kind of, where she's coming from. If she's feeling underappreciated, what you have to do is show her that you listen and know her. She doesn't like stuffed animals or roses, that's a start. Who's her favorite band? Or author? Maybe she'd appreciate a hard to find CD or an autographed book. Maybe you can bake her her favorite cookies. It doesn't have to be expensive, but it should fit what she likes. Is there anything she's been pining for for ages? Get that.
If you guys broke up for something completely unrelated, and she's bringing up this "buy me something pretty" thing out of the blue, then stay away, cause she sounds like a flake.
2006-11-12 09:27:14 · answer #2 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all she sounds very self centeered and shallow either she wants you back and just wants you to get her something special ( the breaup is just motivation) or she doesnt like you all that much and just wants a nice gift either way the gift isnt really going to decide, she is and she has already decided whether you get something great or not but you should still try to prove you care by getting her somethig so i would suggest you really think about this . what is something you would never go through the trouble and possible embaressment to get her she will appreciate that you are willing to put yourself onthe line to make her happy.also music is always a great gift though often undrestimated . you could write her a poem nothimg sappy just about her or a really beatiful letter along wth maybe some really nice but simple jewlery anything personal like if she has a thing for frogs or the color purple or ballet ,get her a necklace with ballet slippers on it somehting personal that will remind her of you
2006-11-12 09:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by sweetmelody14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all why do you want her back? Why do you need to buy her something to get her back? Does she feel unloved? You need to provide more info on this situation because it doesn't sound like any relationship where one party is demanding the other party to purchase (read their mind) the perfect gift in order to win them back is worth pursuing. A gift can't cure the problem that exists that made you 2 break up in the first place.
2006-11-12 09:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by Oh Wise One 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds kind of a "blackmail"... she told you to give her somenthing "spectacular" to get her back to you. No way, if i were you, i wouldn't give her anything. I'm being honest, and i am a woman.We are suppose to "support" each other, but some wome embarrase the race...ja,ja.
If she doesn't like roses, cards ... why is she asking somenthing then ?.what does she want ?, a cute hummer ?... a romantic Mercedes ?..ja,ja .. no way...
2006-11-12 09:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you must like this girl alot to be doing that but she said to you i want something a present that's SPECTACULAR i cant believe that it sounds to me like shes using you to get a gift but i could only be hearing half the story.
so......... i suggest some jewellery
maybe a box of chocolates maybe some nice perfume ask her Friend's what sort she likes or even write down what she means to you give it to her and kiss her hope you solve this problem x x
2006-11-12 09:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
An 8 million dollar ring should get her back.
P.S. If I were you I wouldn't try to get her back because she is wanting something from you, that says she's a gold digger.
2006-11-12 09:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her a fancy necklace or something, shaped like a heart. That's cute, and spectacular too.
2006-11-12 09:22:44 · answer #8 · answered by Someone 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well your ex-gf sounds really materialistic and any girl that wants something from you in order to get back together with you doesn't want you it sounds like she wants your money but try and find something she likes a lot i guess if you want a girl that doesn't want you for you....like gosh i don't know this one is hard. umm... well just try and think of stuff she likes and go from there i guess! best of luck and hope you get her back!!
2006-11-12 09:24:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any girl that NEEDS a gift to get back together with you isnt worth spending the money on.
2006-11-12 09:24:21 · answer #10 · answered by AussieHel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't get her anything because the is just being a golddigger by saying that she wont come back unless you buy her something and that isn't what a guy needs. you dont need a gold digger in your life.
2006-11-12 09:23:53 · answer #11 · answered by DiP13sK01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋