i ran into him about 8 months ago and we really hit it off,i was still bitter about catching my ex of a few years cheating(they r mutual freinds)he listened and understood,he drove me home that night and i invited him to stay,i asked him to sleep in the bed with me,he did,i asked him to put his arm around me,he did till i slept,he was such a gentleman,things were awkward the next mornign when he left,a mutual friedn told me he liked me but was freaked about my ex(who still wants me back)i saw thisguy again 2 months after that night and he came to me and said"your killing me",my ex was also there with him and was upset that we liked eachother.I thought of him ever since.I saw him again at a pety a few weeks ago(6 months later)and he when he walked in he saw me and looked away.And later in the night we crossed paths and he smiled and said"hey whats up"as if there was nothing there anymore.It was awkward seeing him again because istill likehim,but it seemshe willnever disobeythe"guycode"
2006-11-12 09:19:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sure he likes ya.. (he is crazy about you!) It shows again and again in what you write above! YES you are perceptive about that 'guy code.' I think he's got to work some things out in his head .. this is hard to do BUT it will pay off.. Give it a couple more months. Don't push it! You know one important thing (and it's a biggie) that this guy has got 'good morals..' If he's being respectful of his friends (I think it's kool) think how great and respectful he will be of YOUR feellings?! Am I right? This guy sounds like a real keeper, hon. You are doing o.k. too by the way by playing it cool.. keep it 'casual.' Play back his 'hey, what's up?' to him. (Real kool how he stayed w/ya and slept there, didn't touch ya.. that what ya wrote, right? he was awkward in the morning..) He sounds like he is not going to cheat on you. (He sounds like a real dear.) I say GO for it!!!!!!
2006-11-12 09:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is honest bit I basically forgive and sick under no circumstances act a similar round them my mom used to hit ne at the same time as i replaced into 3 and that i don't believe her I do something in the back of her again so I basically forgive yet I also ignore!
2016-10-16 08:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by pellenz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Six months is a long time to go without talking... Don't jump to conclusions, but if it is going to be that long until you see him again, forget it. If you really want to pursue it, call him up.
2006-11-12 09:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should move on cos theres plenty of fish in the sea and one day you will find the one it could be just around the corner you never no
2006-11-12 09:23:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are too many fish in the sea. throw him in the gutter and go get another. girls are better anyways.
2006-11-12 09:24:15 · answer #5 · answered by BRANDI 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get his email while your ex isn't around and if you have it talk to him maybe set up a secret relationship.
2006-11-12 09:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump his ***, forget about him, I wish it could be as simple as that. The heart wants what it wants
2006-11-12 09:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by rickjames 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on! you will never be happy with him for as long as they stya friends.It will always be weird.
You can do better !Good luck!
2006-11-12 09:24:29 · answer #8 · answered by miraclev2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Far to complicated, move on.
2006-11-12 09:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either go for it, or forget it! You'll never know if you don't try....
2006-11-12 09:23:15 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋