He hasent called yet or even imed me , he tells me he wants to see me so bad and that we need to hang out this weekend and then i dont get a call or an im . We are just friends but he is always telling me how gorgeous i am but its like he obviously dosent give a crap about spending anytime with me or he would have made an effort. I have no way of getting ahold of him and he's said he has wantedted to see me for so long.
Its stupid and for whatever reason i feel crappy.. and a guy i thought i didnt like has broke my heart. At least it feels that way. I mean is he really into me or what!
2006-11-12 09:18:20 · 9 answers · asked by And kayla was like 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we are not going out...
we are friends but i was hoping we could be better friends
2006-11-12 09:30:17 · update #1
I would say, as others, that he is a player, or in short a rotter you would be better off without.
I know it hurts at the moment, I don't know what is worse, to be rejected outright or ignored.
If you can remind yourself that you are far move valuable than he is treating you, and remember that there are probably quite a few attractive, decent men out there waiting to meet you will will help.
The best part is knowing now what a right git he is. Imagine being in the same house or married to a man who would treat you like this! So, I would let friends know that I am ready to move on, and who knows? Within a very short time someone new, and genuinely interested in you as a person, and who really wants to spend time with you will come along.
All I can think of otherwise is to consider everyone who has responded to your question is giving you a hug in writing, and for the most part are saying "you deserve and can do better."
And if he ever calls, tell him you are no longer interested in him. The faster you can get free of this Rot, the faster you can heal and move on.
Better yet, you will have told him to bugger off. You get out of it with your self respect. You have made the decision.
And if he never calls, well consider that you were too much of a lady for him, and his small mind, and equally pathetic penis couldn't measure up to your glory and he fled from your presence!
2006-11-12 09:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Charles-CeeJay_UK_ USA/CheekyLad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in the same situation for the past 6 mths with a male friend, he says im gorgeous and says he wants me but keeps backing off and going all cold on me, he ended up breaking my heart when intially it was him who wanted to be more than friends, strange eh?? Now ive lost one of my best friends cos its too hard. You sound like you are in the same situation i was in, stop it now, he'll only end up messing your head up, i wish id listened to my friends!!!! Good luck and be strong x
2006-11-12 17:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is putting you on stand-by in case his real plans don't work out. i think you should dump him and find someone who deserves you. the next time he call tell him you are busy but you MIGHT be free next weekend. when he calls - and he will cos suddenly you are unattainable - tell him you have plans. sorry. see how he likes it.
2006-11-12 17:28:32 · answer #3 · answered by magicalle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is trying to mess up with ur head, its mind control, he wants to put u were he wants u, be care dont fall into d trap of loving him, let him go now that u can afford to move on or u'll be adicted to him
2006-11-12 17:32:47 · answer #4 · answered by gal-next-dr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probably just shy and he's probably trying to see if you're interested. good things come to those who wait, and this'll make you want him more when he finally does come around to callen or im'ng u. hang in there, and don't give up! good luck
2006-11-12 17:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by crzyhottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes playing with you ditch him
2006-11-12 17:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he is not into you. plain to see that. move on girl
2006-11-12 17:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by michelle b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's probaly a player,ditch him and ignore him
2006-11-12 17:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...or what like!!
Yknow...
Nah.
2006-11-12 17:22:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋