The problem is that I'm not a big spender, I'm much more of a saver. Dating hot women means I would have to be spending a lot of cash on them, and if I don't, they'll just find someone who will. What should I do?
2006-11-12 09:16:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not all women are like that. You just have to slow down and let God do his job and help you to find the right women. There is a women out there that is just right for you, you just have to quit rushing it to happen. I mean date all the women you want, just don't try to get committed to them right away.
I've been married 9 yrs. I got married at 18 and I have 2 great kids. Now my sister is the same age and she still hasn't found Mr. right. I am telling you just like I tell her it will happen if you let God do his job. God Bless and Good Luck !!!!!
2006-11-12 09:27:55 · answer #1 · answered by chrissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, man, no wonder you have such problems. Okay, stop looking at how hot the woman is, and start looking at how you two mesh, personality-wise. You don't want a high-maintenance woman who expects you to pay her way? Then don't date them. Most women aren't that way, and there are plenty of lovely women who are perfectly content to go outside in jeans and sneakers and can pay for their own stuff.
You really need to stop looking at your girlfriend as a possession, and start viewing her as a person. If she makes you happy, and vice versa, if you two can have fun folding laundry, and if you are attracted to her, what does it matter if she looks like a Cosmo cover? As long as you have such shallow ideas of dating, you are only going to attract women who are similarly shallow, which is exactly what you're saying you don't want.
2006-11-12 09:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by random6x7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel like you're generalizing a little too much. Not all beautiful women expect you to break the bank buying them gifts. Speaking as someone who has, in the past, been referred to as high maintenance, I can say that sometimes what you think may be the case isn't always the case. For me, I do enjoy nice dinners and nice things, but I'd be just as happy hanging out with my boyfriend in the park or reading magazines with him at the bookstore. I don't think you can assume all pretty women want you to spend all your money. If you like someone, it shouldn't matter how much they spend on you.
2006-11-12 09:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by skichamonix515 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello,
Not all attractive woman are high maintenance and not all want you to spend your cash on them.Take your time and dont rush to find that special someone.She will eventually pop up out of no where.
There is a saying it goes something like this(When your looking for love it never comes but when your not it pops right in your face)So you see there is a attractive,smart and sexy woman out there for you just be patient ahe will come along.Please dont change your life style for anyone the woman that deserves you will except you for you and your ways of life.
2006-11-12 09:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by shari225 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poster 22 is right, not all hot women are like that, um, technically, I'm not a woman, but I'm really close, and money's not that big a deal to me. Other things matter, and I don't the looks of a woman should matter either. But hey, it's how the world is today, Oh well. Whatever.
2006-11-12 10:06:36 · answer #5 · answered by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't give up, hot looking girls does not mean they are high maintenance... that's kind of stereotyping..there are a lot of hot looking gals out there who are also down to earth and does not go for material things... the right girl will come. and nowadays, we don't expect guys to pay for everything anymore especially when both parties have a job.
2006-11-12 09:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by toffee-ettes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to think I'm not too much of an eye sore, and I'm not high maintenance at all. In fact, I married my husband when I knew he didn't have a nickel to his name. Keep looking, you'll find a pretty girl who isn't like that.
2006-11-12 09:21:10 · answer #7 · answered by Kallie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit going for looks and go for the person themselves. Trust an older man on this one......looks fade and you are left with the personality then. When I got over being shallow and wanting just the "arm candy" I found better more meaningful relationships and more than that........Happiness. ;-)
2006-11-12 09:20:04 · answer #8 · answered by textigger06 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
suck it up and spend the dough, you can't have everything ya noe. that's the price you pay for dating "high maintenance girls." even though the only reason they are attracted to you is your money. not you.
2006-11-12 09:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by crzyhottie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the girl...if they are high maintenance you might want to leave it alone...most girls are not that way...they would rather you just be real...
2006-11-12 09:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by Mr Clean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋