I'm almost 30 years old. I was born & raised in Latin American under very strict traditions. I came to the States when I was 23. Up to now I have only sleep with 2 men. My first husband, with whom I married a virgin. Then my second husband. I'm separated from my second husband now and although I would like to start dating I do not want to sleep around with guys. I have a male friend (American) who I told him about my previous sexual experience (or lack thereof). He seemed surprised. He told me that I should "go out more often" but I DO NOT want to sleep around with guys.
I wonder if it is weird for a female my age to have so little experience?
I also wonder if I weird him out?
2006-11-12 09:13:16 · 7 answers · asked by Mesa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No its not weird not to have a lot of experience with men. You can watch some movies and gain some knowledge. You know what you like.Now its time you learned how to please your man. Dating doesnt always mean sex. You can let the guy know that you arent a woman that sleeps around.If he respects you he will understand that you dont want to move to fast or have a sex only relationship.
2006-11-12 09:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by justturning40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am almost 32 and the only guy I've been with is my husband. Some people might think that's awesome, and I guess that would be if I was happy in this relationship.
Now I wish I would have been with a few more guys, not like hundreds but a couple of more.
2006-11-12 09:16:05 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is America everything is weird here that's the beauty of the states. you can be anything you want including a gal that does not want to sleep around just to get a date or two. if he weirded out by you then you need to find a man that is more compatible with your morals and values. remember this is America your aloud to have morals and values. good luck and enjoy
2006-11-12 09:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by john_borst2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is for a person your age to have so little experience. most teenagers here in america start having sex between the ages of 13 and 15. but u probably dont weird him out but its our culture that to make the person that u r dating offically yours u have to sleep with them 1st unless they really like u and and they dont mind waiting.
2006-11-12 09:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let a guy tell you to "go out more."
You seem like a great person who has morals.
Keep those morals up.
Don't sleep around.
That's what s l u t s do. And you don't sound like a s l u t.
2006-11-12 09:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not wierd.
I am also looking now.
Sex is not at the top of the list with me.
It is on the list though... 8^)
Just be yourself doll.
All those experiences are not all they are cracked up to be.
2006-11-12 09:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by Kaustaub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wierd at all
2006-11-12 09:16:37 · answer #7 · answered by supur 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋