If your young daughter had a boyfriend, and she found out that he had a My Space, and on the profile he said he was single, and there looking for serious relationships , friends, and to date. How can you get her to see what he is about? Or do you think it is innocent. Give me your opinion.
2006-11-12 09:06:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By the way, she really likes this guy alot, and wants it to be innocent, Is there any hope?
2006-11-12 09:08:14 · update #1
Thanks for your "reply", but she's only 15. You back off and think about if it was your daughter, and you were a true parent, which I sincerely hope your not!
2006-11-12 09:11:36 · update #2
I have meet him, he is my son-in-laws brother. And she found his my space because his brother told her to look. The last chat in it was 2 days ago.
2006-11-12 09:21:23 · update #3
Red, you really should understand that not everyone who comes to answers is an idiot. I'll tell you what kind of Mom I am' I am a Mom who knows where her children are. I know who they are with and I'm there for them 24-7. She does not date this guy in the sence that they go places together. She doesn't have a My-space. She went in there because her brother-in-law told her he had a My-space. I was not on answers for anyone to fix a problem for me. I was trying to get feedback on how to handle what I know is going to be a difficult cituation for her. A$$ holes like you make me sick. As for anyone who thinks I'm not aware of what happens in blogs like my-space, I do. That is why she is not a member and does not have a space.
2006-11-13 12:21:43 · update #4
talk to her about it. give her your opinion but do not demand and then let her make her own decision. if she breaks up with him, it has to be her choice. if she feels pressured, she might end the relationship but blame or resent you, or she might continue seeing him to spite you. if she continues with the relationship, you know how it will end so you just gotta be ready to comfort her when it goes bad. not sure how young she is but she'll get over him in time if it's her choice and she has your support and understanding. and i don't think anything is innocent when it comes to the heart. we both know she'll get it broken one way or another. just be there for her. that's all you really can do.
2006-11-12 09:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by jellybean 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can understand where you're coming from. I'd be concerned, too. But you need to let go of your daughter. How old is she?
Hey here's an idea How about you meet this guy before they start dating?
I mean you can never tell with those MySpace blogs. Maybe he just didn't change it yet or he's just trying to get people to talk to him, who knows...
I just read she's 15.Yes, definitely meet this boyfriend of hers.
2006-11-12 17:12:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If i were you i would let her figure it out on her own i know u don't want your daughter to get hurt but she will learn from it...if u haven't told her then give hints that will make her think about there relationship..there really is nothing you can do but sit back and watch and hope for the best.
2006-11-12 17:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by CONFUSED 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You are not going to be able to make her see anything she does not want to see for herself.
MySpace is a site that should not be trusted. YOU are the mother. YOU should be educated enough to know that some of the things on MySpace are cover-ups for Child Molester's and Predator's.
WHO KNOWS IF IT IS INNOCENT OR NOT! DO YOU WANT HER TO FIND OUT THE HARD WAY?
2006-11-12 17:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
LET THE MAN AND YOUR DAUGHTER ALONE!!! fOR HOW LONG U THINK U CAN PROTECT HER?! LET HER FIND OUT WHAT LIFE IS AND THAT SHE CAN'T TRUST JUST ABOUT ANYONE. BBAACCKK OOFFFF!!!!!!!! Then it was youe mistake from the begining for leting her date him. If u're such a good mom how come u didn't smell him from the begining. Or if your worried that she could get hurt at such a young age - .... Nevermind! I know what I would do and that's not looking for answers on the Internet when it concerns my family! PERIOD
2006-11-12 17:09:24 · answer #5 · answered by red 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well maybe you should let her find out in her own ways what she wants to do!Trust that she will do whats right for her!
2006-11-13 19:56:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my HUSBAND has a MySpace account that he doesn't know that I know about and it says that he is single and doesn't want kids. We are married and have two kids. Makes me ticked off to be honest.
2006-11-12 17:14:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let her talk to him. If he's long distance, the worst thing they can do is have cyber-sex.
2006-11-12 17:11:23 · answer #8 · answered by ! 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋