Its been so long since I talked to a female. Im not asking for lines but what makes a women feel comfortable talking to a stranger.
2006-11-12 09:03:22 · 7 answers · asked by hardworkur84 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honest, casual conversation. Not trying to sell yourself in the first ten minutes. Not asking her out in the first thirty. A woman nowadays NEEDS to feel that she knows someone at least a little bit before wanting to date. Find some common ground, any common ground, on which to start a conversation. Don't drill her with questions about what she likes, trying to find that common ground...that's always awkward and uncomfortable. A nice compliment is always good, but it must be sincere and thoughtful. Notice something men don't usually comment on. I love it when a man compliments my shoes, or my choice of nail polish color. Good luck. Hope this helps.
2006-11-12 09:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by frogluvrrr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no lines. Women are tired of the same old same old. A smile is nice, not a creepy one though. You don't want to come off too strong. If you see a nice girl at a restaurant or store or something kind of make eye contact smile, look down, look up then smile again. Talk about something that is going on. Maybe offer to buy her food or whatever it may be.
2006-11-12 17:08:22 · answer #2 · answered by xstraight_edge_emo_kidx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
approach her as a friend at first. Decent girls don't like guys just randomly walking up, asking for her number and dropping witty pickup lines. To me that usually means the guy is a total pimp who knows his way with words to manipulate women... sure that might not be true in all cases, but I really like it when I can have a friendship before a relationship
2006-11-12 17:08:29 · answer #3 · answered by some girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I appreciate honesty & intensity. What a lot of women think is "creepy" because it's "too strong", I appreciate for its raw passion.
That being said, I don't like a sleezeball who siddles up to me and starts whispering dirty things in my ear -- eww.
If I like someone I will start sending clear signals. So pay attention. I WILL stare at you with "come hither" eyes; I like to BE APPROACHED. When you make your move, come over, get close - I want to smell you. And look me in the eyes. I like to be told what you love about me. I like to be told what sets me apart. Don't just ask for my number and run. Tell me you'd love to take me out to dinner sometime. Ask me if I'd like to join you for a walk. Ask me to dance.
2006-11-12 17:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by curiousity_killed_the_cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to develop your own style otherwise it won't feel genuine. and do you want a "nice girl", a "princess", or a woman? I like intellectually stimulating conversations, flirting, touch, kisses, time together, talking for hours, eye contact (including checking me out". Good luck and just be you.
2006-11-12 17:14:16 · answer #5 · answered by goddess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi, or say something completely off the wall that will usually get my attention,
good luck and smile big even when it hurts
2006-11-12 17:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is brilliant. I'm wondering the same thing.
2006-11-12 17:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by aureliusrocker 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋