I'm a young adult, and i recently got a boyfriend, (he's a very special boy) and he's my first one i have ever had due to moral reasons. I want to treat him right and make him happy to be with me.How do i treat him? Any good tips on keeping him happy to be with me? (please, no sex tips)
2006-11-12 08:53:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself and be a good friend, try not to be jealous, try to be supportive and really listen when he speaks. Pay attention to his likes and dislikes and if you can cook, learn to make his favorite food and make it for an anniversary or plan and pack a picnic lunch-if it's cold enjoy it on the floor in front of a classic romantic movie. If he cares for you he should do many of the same things and then you will be on your way to a good relationship. Good Luck!
2006-11-12 08:57:22 · answer #1 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All guys are different, and there is no single answer. However, my best advice is to treat him as a boyfriend and not a husband. Boys are easily scared off, if they see somebody do their laundry and ironing their shirts.
So I read between the lines that you are not planning on having sex with him. That may or may not be fine with your boyfriend, depending on his former relationships and age. For 9 our of 10 boyfriends that would be a dealkiller after about 2 months. No tips. Just wanted to let you know...
2006-11-12 09:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by Ivan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat your boyfriend how you would like to be treated. However, Most guys are not clingy, so don't be too clingy. (My boyfriend happens to be this way and I love it!) Whatever you do, do not compromise your moral standards for anyone. Be nice and loving. Let him know you care. Offer to buy dinner, or ice cream or whatever sometimes. Give him space when he wants it. Offer to do some things he likes (sports, etc.). Or you could incorporate things both you and him like. Don't be jealous, bitchy, don't complain, but stand your ground if he is doing something you absolutely do not like. I hope this helps.
2006-11-12 08:58:24 · answer #3 · answered by xstraight_edge_emo_kidx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you trying yourself mould yourself to his liking?
If so, I advise against it.
For a serious relationship, it should be just like treating a friend with honesty and the caring.
Learn to appreciate what he does and he should do it in return.
Cherish the moment you two are together and try to learn to grow up together.
It should be give and take for both of you.
Good luck!
2006-11-12 08:59:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself dont exaggerate, he may think you are pretending. Dont do things just because he wants them done. Do them when you believe it is right and make him understand so otherwise he will think you are acting to please him. Show him that you genuinely love him. Be there for him and guide him when he goes wrong - but do it politely while reading his moods. Women have a way to get into the hearts of men so find yours deep into this mans heart ofcourse using a way good to9 both of you. Good luck
2006-11-12 09:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations of your new relationship. Usually your partner is happy when you are a happy person. Remember your tender feelings for him today whenever you are tempted to say something cruel or unkind to him. Treat him with respect, be thoughtful, and considerate of his feelings. Build him up to others and praise his accomplishments. Treat him as you would like him to treat you.
2006-11-12 08:58:40 · answer #6 · answered by Rita T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Become involved, or interested in what he likes. Examples would be, sports, cars, art etc. Share you likes with him. Whatever you do, DO NOT crowd him. Don't become a shadow to his every move. Give each other space as needed to develope common interests.
2006-11-12 08:58:56 · answer #7 · answered by LifeRyder 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he likes food learn how to cook, if he like to read buy him a good book, learn his interest and be faithful. without trust u have nothing. find common ground, the same likes and indulge in them, but remember relationships r bout give and take u r not a servant ,implies what is good for him is good for u.
2006-11-12 09:01:29 · answer #8 · answered by ericlouisville1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree. Go for a walk or go hang out together somewhere. Treat him well. When a girl treats a guy like s--t, we don't forget it!
2006-11-12 08:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by aureliusrocker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be hes friend listen to him when he need some one to talk to make him laugh make him smile hold his hand hold him dance with him look in to hes eyes and tell him how much you mean to you spend time with him go to the movies go to dinner good sex don't hurt whats up not having sex i hope you are
2006-11-12 10:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋