THIS NEW girl started working at OUR Work(ONLY TWO WEEKS), she is new to town and no bf BUT has lot of gfs.
WHAT i should do,, i like her very much.
1) Ask her out on date now? keep in mind the risk if she refussed it will creat tension at work and i may loose her even as a friend
2) just be friend and try to know each other and keep flirting,, keeping in mind the risk that some body else may ask her out and she may end up been in love too soon and I will never be able to date her
I am so depreesed , i dont know what to do, so please just vote 1, or 2 ..no comments thanks :
Note:, i lost my last job b/c i asked a girl for date (too many time, b/c she keep giving vague answers) , AND i guessed she complained... so I am very scary too....
2006-11-12 08:26:53 · 17 answers · asked by lpc9911 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
3.... Neither of the above!
2006-11-12 08:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-12 08:31:50 · answer #2 · answered by Cutie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-12 08:30:28 · answer #3 · answered by yankee gal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-12 08:29:36 · answer #4 · answered by Esen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1, and I am gonna comment thank! Ask her once not every day. If the answer is a vague answer then leave it at that go on forget her and just be friends. end of story you work together don't make it a social where its the dating game. Good Luck and just don't be scared and there are always other girls!
2006-11-12 08:31:41 · answer #5 · answered by KayAlley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something Specially
For You
I said a prayer for you today
And know God must have heard-
I felt the answer in my heart
Although He spoke no word!
I didn't ask for wealth or fame
(I knew you wouldn't mind)-
I asked Him to send you treasures
Of a far more lasting kind!
I asked that He'd be near you
At the start of each new day
To grant you health and blessings
And my friendship to share your way
I asked for happiness for you
In all things great and small-
But it was for His loving care
I prayed the most of all.
By: Kenny P. aka-Cobra
2006-11-12 08:31:06 · answer #6 · answered by Cobra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not ask her to have lunch with you at work and take it from there? If she says "yes" then she might go the next step. don't rush it and don't push. If she doesn't want to have lunch with you, it stops there.
If you do end up lunching together, drop hints. Don't ask directly at first. Find out what she likes to do in her spare time. Talk about things you have in common. Or invent some.
2006-11-12 08:35:11 · answer #7 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2.
Im going to elaborate anyway so get over it.
You obviously can't handle an office relationship so keep it at friends. Office flings are never a good idea for anyone.
2006-11-12 08:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no death is stupid, no offense. Ask herit's the only definate way to go. If something bad hapend in the past well it's the past. Not every girl that you'll like and work with is going to report you.
2006-11-12 08:31:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like #2.you can always become great friedns with her and act as a brother type person when it comes to her dating.you dont need to comite suicide over some girl who cares for you as a friend.you should be happy that you have her in your life as a friend.
2006-11-12 08:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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think about it are you really going to risk loosing your job again?
she only been there fo two weeks let her get used to the job,and then maybe you can have time to relax,dont stress so much about it.
2006-11-12 08:36:07 · answer #11 · answered by paulina83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋