I dont even know why I do it.
2006-11-12 08:24:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im esp rude with fat people...hell even anorexics, I dont say anything to their faces but in my head I do.
2006-11-12 08:27:33 · update #1
why do you want to stop,you only live once so enjoy yourself.....
2006-11-12 08:27:59 · answer #1 · answered by germans 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you would feel if others made fun of you. This is called empathy. If empathy doesn't work try thinking about karma. What ever you do to another will eventually be done to you. So whatever you do in this life will come back upon you at some point in time. Would you like it if someone made fun of you? If you keep doing this, it will be happening to you.
2006-11-12 09:00:35 · answer #2 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi this is Sashia and I have been made fun all my life and it really hurts alot, so with u admitting this is a start and asking this question, can open many doors for u...I have one answer for this. What if ur son/daughter came to u with this same question later in life?.....think about it...think before u let ur head take u there, and u can just put a smile on ur face and say "HELLO"...try this for me....ok, UR FRIEND SASHIA..
2006-11-12 08:37:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sashia D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you speak, think of how you would feel if someone said what you are about to say, to you. If you would not like it, do not say it.
Making fun of others typically stems from insecurity...someone with low self esteem will make fun of others to boost their own feelings about themselves (an "I'm better or prettier than they are" kind of thing).
Making fun of others isn't the way to improve your feelings about yourself...not a way to make or keep friends (worth having)...and is cruel and hurtful.
Treat others as you want to be treated...and learn to love yourself...if you don't like you, why should anyone else?
2006-11-12 08:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
usually when a person makes fun of a person it is because they have some insecurity that they see in the person they are making fun of and by making fun of this person maybe they won't notice it in you. Try going up to this person and bieng nice and maybe they can help you feel less insecure of yourself and will probably be one of the best friends you will ever have. Because they have inner beauty and inner peace.
2006-11-12 08:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by marilee w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do it because something inside you feels inferior and when you make fun of others you think that it will make you look better. Try being sympathetic to people instead. Put yourself in their shoes and see how you would feel if someone was making fun of you.
2006-11-12 08:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by queenmaeve172000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll stop when someone makes fun of you... Just tell a friend to formulate a secret plan to humiliating you without you knowing.
2006-11-12 08:28:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ruslan G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could try standing in front of a mirror and start making fun of yourself...would you be as harsh? At least you admit it! Keep trying...
2006-11-12 08:27:50 · answer #8 · answered by Painter Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably because you're a little insecure, even if you don't know it. A lot of people (myself included) do it. . .as for stopping, I don't think it should be a problem unless you do it a lot and you're really catty about it.
2006-11-12 08:27:12 · answer #9 · answered by Casey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep comments to urself. Learn how 2 bite ur tongue. Always works
2006-11-12 08:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Nellz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might do it to because it is easier for you to look at the comical things about life and thus easier for you to handle or you do it because you are not happy with yourself. either way, just learn to respect and honor.
2006-11-12 08:27:41 · answer #11 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋