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Our dog wants to be with us constantly, we have a 9 week old Shar Pei. The trouble is bedtime....she still wants us to pick her up etc. We dont want to get into the habit of having her in bed with us but also dont want her barking and waking up the kids.
Any good ideas please ?
Serious answers would be appreciated. Thanks.

2006-11-12 08:22:55 · 18 answers · asked by gary j 2 in Pets Dogs

18 answers

Try putting a baby gate across your bedroom door and leave the dog in her basket at the otherside of the door. She can still see you but can't get to you.

2006-11-12 08:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by little weed 6 · 1 0

This is a very common problem when you first bring puppies home.My own dog had the same problem.I would invest in buying a crate if you havent already,it gives the puppy a save haven to go to and most importantly it's own bed.Never force your pup inside always be positive,start by leaving the crate door open and praising your pup when it does go inside,dont use the crate as a punishment area.routine is also important make sure you put your pup in bed at a set time everynite with a couple of cuddly toys or even maybe a kong {which you can get for puppy's as well} dont make a huge fuss just go to bed,try to ignore any crying otherwise your pup will associate his crying with you coming straight to him.Crates are also great for house training as dogs hate to toilet in there bedding area.Good luck.

2006-11-12 08:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by Heavenly20 4 · 1 0

You don't say how long you've actually had the dog. 9 weeks is pretty young, she's missing Mum and her littermates.
You're going to have to be strong, put her to sleep in a warm room where an "accident" won't be a tragedy (put down some paper), make sure she has a blanket to snuggle into and maybe a warm hot bottle to curl up on.
Whatever you do she WILL whine and cry for up to 3 weeks, you just have to tough it out. If you run in to quiet her down she will learn that the way to make Mummy or Daddy appear is to fuss all night. Make sure she's warm and comfy, put her in the bed and give the command, "Quiet!" and leave. It's best if this room she's in has a door you can shut. But be prepared to deal with the noise until she realises it's no go. She will eventually learn that the fussing doesn't get results, and quiet down.

2006-11-12 09:45:13 · answer #3 · answered by anna 7 · 0 0

OK, i have 2 older dogs, and also a ten week old doberman pup.
our dogs sleep in the living room, of a night.
we also put our puppy in a cage in the living room of a night, so she is in the same room as the other dogs but also has her own private sleeping space.
my husband will take the 2 dogs out for an hours run at the park 2 hours before we plan to go to bed.
i use this opportunity to have a good play with the puppy indoors.
we then let all 3 dogs settle for half an hour before feeding the dogs with just a handfull of mixer (they usually have their 2nd main meal at 6 pm) and i leave my puppy with some scrambled eggs in her cage to settle with.
with a good play and feed, our puppy (and dogs) are sleeping within ten mins after my husband and i have gone to bed.
this has worked well so far.
i hope this helps.
xxx

2006-11-13 21:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by sasha 4 · 1 0

Just get a night-time ritual going.. it goes away shortly. Having a dog is a ton of trouble, but an even bigger ton of loving. Tell her "good-night, Daisy" (or whatever her name is :o), we love you, and give her a big toy to snuggle up with in bed. After that point, you MUST ignore her, or else she might just continue with that habit. Honestly, my dog stopped doing that after a couple days, but there are others who take a bit longer. It's definitely a puppy thing, but you'll want to stop the behavior now. I also never crate trained her, I just don't believe in it, and she's totally fine.

2006-11-12 08:33:50 · answer #5 · answered by Emo B 5 · 1 0

Sleeping tablets ...... No really, what you must do is perservere. If you let her upstairs just once she will know that if she cries she is going to get her own way. It seems mean but trust me she will eventually learn and the barking will stop. Unfortunately you have to put up with it it won't be forever. DO NOT under any circumstances go and comfort her, shout down to tell her off as this is all attention whether its negative or not she is getting attention and this is what she wants, TRUST me she will stop and then will be used to sleeping downstairs. I know how hard it is as I have a basset and always ket her sleep on my bed, then I got another puppy basset and it was too much so had to leave them downstairs. Surprisingly the older one was very good but the pup cried and howled etc but I ignored him and it was v hard but now they are as good as gold. STICK IN THERE! and good luck - love to your little doggie xx

2006-11-12 08:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by Katie G 3 · 2 0

Our dogs is crate experienced besides, there is not something recommend approximately it, that's a sturdy approach of instructing and gives you a dogs it is very own "very own area" to have. Our puppy is a pair of million one million/2 years now and we are coping with the comparable concern. we don't prefer her to think of she would be in a position to sleep out of her crate for all time yet, yet a pair circumstances each and every week we are letting her sleep in our room, suitable now on the foot of the mattress. She does not upward thrust up till we do which i'm VERY grateful for. yet we are thinking approximately procuring her yet another dogs mattress to placed on the floor so she would be in a position to sleep there. we are transforming into to be a sparkling puppy next month and we our dogs now to be attentive to that she is the top of the enjoyed ones, so some distance as dogs bypass it is. yet once you prefer her to sleep in her crate, there is not something incorrect with that. Do what you think of is sturdy on your loved ones and your concern. sturdy success!

2016-10-17 04:56:15 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

I have same promble with my puppy but use if bark just want to potty. I try put puppy in crate at movement beside puppy always on floor but do forgot sometime pick up.
yesterday but my puppy in crate 10pm and wake up 7am but today he woke up 2.55am so left some toys in crate for while then take toys out tell him bed time again my puppy only 9 week olds.

2006-11-12 13:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by yzz 1 · 0 1

You need to break the habit now, she needs her own bed out of sight of you. Ideally down stairs. You may have to progressive break the bond, but ignoring her attempts to get your attention is the key.

If you ignore her, you will have one night of hell, all noise, but after that it will get easier. Everytime you given when she barks, she wins and the habit becomes more engrained.

Start tonight, put in ear plugs. It's not cruel you are being kind in the long run. Good luck.

2006-11-12 08:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by dsclimb1 5 · 3 0

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2016-04-22 22:33:44 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

Try making sure it gets enough physical exercise during the day, that's what worked with my dog. Then use a kennel/crate to put him in at bedtime. I hope this helps, it really worked for me.
Good luck

2006-11-12 08:32:19 · answer #11 · answered by suzy c 5 · 1 0

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