2006-11-12 08:22:42 · 28 answers · asked by yo_dogg_t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's weird at all. I happens, probably everyone has dated someone they weren't attracted to at one time or another.
Many people would automatically say that if you are not attracted to the opposite sex, then you must be gay. But I don't think that's the only option.
Recently, I saw a documentary on asexuality, these are people who have no particular attraction to either sex, and find sexual behavior in general to be undesireable. It's not that they can't physically have sex, or be in relationships, they simply don't find them necessary or of interest.
Read about it here:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asexuality
2006-11-12 08:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Ket-Su Jhuzen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by "attracted."
If you went out with these women and spent time with them and enjoyed their company, then you were clearly "attracted" to them in some way.
But, you probably mean that you didn't feel a desire to be sexually or physically involved with them.
We live in a culture that says everyone, especially men, must be aroused to the maximum degree all the time. Anyone who doesn't feel that kind of intense sexual desire for the people they meet is considered "odd."
Well, you're not. Maybe you just don't have as intense a sex drive as the culture tells you is normal. Don't buy it.
Just keep on meeting girls and one day your desire will follow your level of emotional commitment and intimacy with your chosen woman. For now, don't worry about it.
2006-11-12 08:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by Dean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes...typically people go on dates BECAUSE they are attracted to the other person (on some level)...
Why bother going out with someone that you feel no attraction toward at all? Just for the social experience?
Do you feel as though you may not be hetero, but are dating women because it seems the thing to do?
2006-11-12 08:25:36 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that is VERY weird....lol...not to be rude or anything I just think that you shouldn't do that anyone more because you might be giving the girl the wrong idea....what if she thinks that you really love her....then you go and break her heart....it's not a good thing...and it really does hurt....you have to be attracted on ALL levels for a relationship to work:)
hope this helps:)
2006-11-12 08:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, men do that all the time, to get into their pants..specially if they barely get any..basically what i mean is if a guy can get it from an ugly chick , he will take it..you were probably testing to see if one of them puts out..lol..cease the opportunity..anyways or i can be wrong and maybe you were trying to see if any of the girls might seem attractive after you get to know them..which i doubt..
2006-11-12 08:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just aren't meeting the right girls that catch your eye. There has to be a connection between two people from the very start. Maybe this isn't happening with the girls your meeting. It's either that or being gay.
2006-11-12 08:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its commonplace, your nevertheless youthful, you have countless time to discover somebody you incredibly like. that is a sturdy factor you at the instant are not off relationship a ton of guys. you do not want a boyfriend to be happy. You reported you have reported no to adult males asking you out its your individual own selection. merely through fact different ladies are relationship would not recommend you're able to desire to. shop making your individual possibilities for your self.
2016-11-23 17:54:37 · answer #7 · answered by horabik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird; it just sounds like you're not secure with who YOU are, man. I mean, have you dated a girl long enough to get to the stage of being vulnerable, you know, letting her get to know the real you? If not, then you're probably afraid of intimacy, and that usually means insecurity. I'm not trying to put you down, man. I'm just trying to help.
2006-11-12 08:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by Kent 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you too afraid of being rejected by the "hotties"? Are you afraid of failure, so that is why you keep your standards low when it comes to looks? (not that looks have everything to do with a relationship... but you know what I mean) I felt like this when I was younger and didn't want to deal with the heartache of rejection of someone I really am attracted to.
2006-11-12 08:29:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not weird, just plain silly for me. Why can't you date girls you are interested in instead of going for the masses?
2006-11-12 08:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by PhiloPhobic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋