Okay so a little while ago I asked a question on YAHOO! saying something like "My boyfriend is fat and ugly, and revolting, blah blah." Well little did I know he logged onto my Yahoo account one day and saw the question!
He got pissed off and dumped my ***
Now it's 2 days later and he's dating a 45 year old woman.
I'm 19, my boyfriend is in his 20s, much too young for this lady!
HELP PLEASE I LOVE HIM AND WANT HIM BACK
I DONT CARE THAT HES FAT AND UGLY ANYNMORE
2006-11-12 08:19:57 · 44 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think u hurted him alot he is now think u dont love him and he feel like u are bothered because he is ur bfriend
so he decited to get out from ur life and go to any old women may she accept him
after ur words he lost his trust of himself and he is now thinking that he is ugly and no one will accept him so he went to old women may she accept him
i think if he logged again and seee this question he may feel that u are sorry for what u said
just call him on the phone and tell him that u love him from ur heart
2006-11-12 08:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You probably don't want to hear this but you may be screwed. What you said hurt him and he may not be able to trust you now. At the very least, give him some time to calm down and then see where the relationship lies. Oh, and I wouldn't mention that the new one is too old for him. People date who they want to date, regardless of the age difference and if they are happy together, pointing out an age difference will only backfire in your face.
2006-11-12 09:30:42 · answer #2 · answered by patgd25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys stop bringinng her down even more. How would you feel if your Bf or gf dumped you and you needed help but people keep on bringing you down. Ok look this is what you do. Ask a question on yahoo saying some stuff that will make him want yo back. Then find a way to let him read it.
2006-11-12 08:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Hai! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn to let go young Jedi, you lost him to someone that showed him more love than you did. Why would you call him fat and ugly if you love him. Your own loss of control has made him flee for his sanity and now you want him back so that you could torture him some more. Wish him happines, something you were not able to give the poor chap.....KECK
2006-11-12 08:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tneciter 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is to late. let him go and don't ever make that decision again. But if you really want him back. Tell him how you truly feel in a really really big way. Put yourself out there to be let down. It would not hurt to show some emotion. I hope this helps. good luck :)
2006-11-12 08:24:47 · answer #5 · answered by meme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
so now you don't care that he is fat and ugly? why is that. could it be because he has moved on to someone that wont talk bad about him? it stinks when you are hit with the realization that he don't need you. doesn't it? i don't blame him one bit for dumping your sorry a**. leave him alone he deserves better. you need to grow up. i hope that you have learned something here.
2006-11-12 08:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by here to help 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont care he is fat and ugly anymore? thats real big of you,,i would dump your as$ too.what you said was hurtful,disrespectful and mean,,why should he not date someone who wouldnt do this to him,,are you that shallow you judge someone by their looks and worse,,tell everyone.you have embarrassed him and why should he forgive you,,he may be able to take that kind of maliciousness from someone he isnt dating but someone who actually said 'yes' to going out with him,,you didnt deserve him in the first place,,,,,sorry.
2006-11-12 08:26:23 · answer #7 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let me get this straight, you said your boyfriend is fat and ugly?, why in heavens name would you want him back?, revolting too, what do you care that the woman is too old for him?. My question is "what is wrong with you"?.
2006-11-12 08:27:17 · answer #8 · answered by lara 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately for you, the damage is done. You said something that you are now regretting, and his feelings have been hurt obviously.
This older woman must know how to make him feel desirable, and he is basking in the attention.
2006-11-12 08:25:54 · answer #9 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's gone to her for some motherly love.
Stating that someone is fat and ugly is very hurtful. Maybe he's just trying to hurt you back a little.
She is loving it of course. A 22+ toy boy. It won't last though.
Try apologising to him and he might just come back.
2006-11-12 08:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋